Am not speaking to DH today - On Saturday when I was ot looking after our daughter all day he spent 2 hours on the net looking at porn - I found it in the history - later he had deleted those particular entries, not all of the history, so that it doesn't look suspicious - when I told him that I was pissed off about it he denied it and told me I was being hysterical. Then I found in his email (his work email) a message from a woman saying that she had found his ad in the personals and would love to meet him but only for fun as she was married .......blah blah blah. As I was was so shocked and furious I stupidly deleted it. When I challenged him about it and asked him what he was doing putting himself in personals ads he denied it all. What could I say when I had destroyed the evidence? Then refused to talk to me and we haven't spoken since. Does anybody know whether it is possible that his name has just got caught up in a mass mailing spam email? I doubt it although I don't know that much about the internet - I would have thought that at some point he must have put his details in a "looking for..." sort of website. I really need help with this as if he is interested in meeting other women I'm not interested in being married to him anymore. All help and advice appreciated