Ma I'm going to post your virtual kiss up the arse on here because I don't particularly want to advertise my excessive drinking on the other thread any more than I have done already. 
I used to post on here regularly (Mia, for anyone who remembers) but I didn't feel like I had a lot of advice to contribute as I didn't want to stop drinking entirely and am pretty crap at cutting down, too. I just lurk from time to time now, but it's still great to keep track of the faces I remember and read about people overcoming their demons.
I was going to post to LaTrollope too, but you seem happier to do SW instead and I figure that this WOE doesn't work for everyone - there's more than one way to skin a cat, etc.
But Ma, I kind of feel like I know you a bit, having read your posts for a couple of years. I remember you when you were DeterminedMa, and you were bloody brilliant - so focused and positive. You can do this, I'm sure of it - you've just got to put your mind to it. You did a 5k run if I remember rightly, and there's no way in the fucking world I could do that!
Bootcamp is really hard for the first two weeks. Your body craves the sugar it's used to and you're in withdrawal, basically. I personally think that drinkers have an even harder time of it as we are used to getting an easy source of energy in wine - your body will use that before it turns to fat burning, as it's much easier to process. I'm not 100% convinced by the whole 'ketogenically adapted' thing, tbh, but I do know that your body adjusts within the first couple of weeks and the sugar cravings go away! Honestly!
BUT... This doesn't happen if you cheat!! I can't reiterate this enough - cheating just prolongs the unpleasant symptoms and the cravings. If you can accept that you will feel like absolute crap for 2-5 days (treat yourself as though you've got a virus or something) then you do start to feel better and when you feel good on this WOE, you feel brilliant - clearer, more energetic, much less hungry, not craving sugar and wine all the time.
When I'm eating 'normally', I drink pretty much every night. We aim to have Mon and Tues AF but I usually manage one day if that. The amount of time and energy I spend thinking about whether or not I'm going to drink, bargaining and arguing with myself, then feeling crap afterwards because I failed to stick to my resolution yet again, is staggering. Plus the health implications of drinking 30+ units a weeks (at a very conservative estimate) and the anxiety from the drinking and the worrying about drinking.
But when I low-carb, I find it 100 times easier not to drink. I find that I don't start that dialogue (which always ends with a glass in my hand) nearly so often. It creeps back up again the longer I do it, admittedly, but it does make a difference. I've only had two glasses of wine (Sunday) since I started BC and I feel sooooooooo much better for it. Saved a shitload of money too. My point is, that if you can accept that for two weeks you're not going to drink or eat carby stuff, and that you'll probably feel like shit, and miss your usual emotional crutches and comforts, and just keep your head down and get on with it, then at the end of that fortnight you'll feel pretty amazing. It's just two weeks out of your life! Cancel any social stuff, batten down the hatches and look on it like having the flu - all you've got to do is rest, drink buckets of water and only eat/drink what you're supposed to. Take some supplements and maybe some herbs, warn your family that you're in a bit of a fragile state (I know your DH is a bit of an arse but just avoid him! 
) and hide from the world. It's just two weeks!
After that, if nothing's changed, you're still craving wine and sugar/carbs and feeling crap, then you've got the whole rest of your life to drink wine and eat whatever you like.