I keep stuffing up dates arghhh

[Throwingthetowel]

I'm reasonably attractive and have no problem getting dates, it's keeping them I struggle with.
This week I met with a guy I'd Been for a brief date with six weeks ago and then due to him being away for work and sick it took until this week to catch up again, lots of sexting in between.
So the date itself goes well, we both know its going to end up in bed that's was average tbh, a few comedy moments where I got cramp that kind of thing.
Anyway a bit of morning glory the next day, he drops me at the station for work, kiss goodbye and speak soon from him and then nothing. The silence is deafening lol

I wouldn't text.
What would you even say?!?

What would be the point in texting? You know he's not keen and I'm not sure what you'd achieve by laying into him.

Yeah I agree. No point in texting, he'll be in touch if he's interested. But if not... NEXT!!

dont text. you could have done quite quickly.. but now its a few days on. stay off fb too and if hes not been in contact after a week, delete him off it

I can't stand mind games and I don't think playing by certain rules makes much difference to the outcome of a relationship; you're either into each other or you're not. I've had sex quickly with some of my exes and taken my time with others and there's been no correlation between how long I've waited and how successful the relationship has been. My philosophy is only have sex with a man if I'm not going to be upset if it's a one off and with that in mind just do what feels good at the time.

Spot on