I'm currently pregnant with dc4... Dh is acting oddly and im not sure if im being paranoid and what to do next.
Weve been together for 10 yrs and outwardly have a great relationship. Things were fine until abput 4wks ago. I put it down to me being very tired. He tells me almost saily that im nagging. I guess i do a bit but ive bwen very tired and need more help with children and housework. Along side this hes lost a stone and starting using moisturiser (trivial i know).
Today we had a big argument. The children are all staying away tonight. Dh rang me and asked if i was going away to visit my family tonight saying he "wouldnt mind if i did". (background family membrr unwell dying) i said no... Tjat i wanted to take children with me to visit at weekend". He kept insisting that i go tonight. I lost it and asked "why are u so keen for me to go out when we rarely get an evening together." He accused me of being hormonal and hung up.
Cut to tonight. He got in. Asked me what my plans were ( takeaway and early night) and then announced that he wasnt tired and was off out with ppl from work ( he doesnt normally socialiae with work mates).
Am sat now wondering wtf has happened to my marriage. Am wondering if i am a bit hormonal of if i should trust my bullshit detector. Any ideas???