As many of you will know Ive had problems with my dh and his bizarre attitude for a while now. He is an utter control freak and likes things "his" way. At the moment we have quite a lot going on - a decorator is coming next week to decorate the dining room, kitchen, hall stairs landing consequently our lounge is quite full. We are also supposed to going on holiday very early on Saturday morning for a week. The decorator was due to come last week but dh put him off for another week as work asked him to do nights this week at a days notice which he foolishly agreed to. Dh has not prepared any of the rooms for decoration I have had to strip the wallpaper/clear the rooms etc because "you dont work". We were going to just have lining paper in the various rooms and have the walls painted. Dh decided at the last minute that he wanted a printed paper at least in the hall stairs etc. but he wasnt prepared to go look for a paper - I had to because "you dont work". In addition Ive had to find other bits such as lighting, flooring curtains etc and get the holiday things organised/bought. Obviously as well as keeping a now cluttered few rooms clean and tidy and doing all the normal things. Anyway he has told me this evening that he's not going on holiday now because he doesnt want to. He says we have no money - we;ve just bought another car and he's spending money on ridiculous things for it that in my humble opinion we dont need and in fact are simply taking up space in the house even though they belong in the garage. I am so at my wits end now and feel like someone has punched me in the stomach - I just dont want to play :(