that he might want another baby! WTF!!!!!!!!!!
We are 4 weeks away from a move I am dreading back to the UK. We have no house there and no jobs as of yet. We will be staying with his parents until we find somewhere which is far from ideal. We are both under enormous pressure both financially and emotionally. Our marriage has not been smooth of late, our sex life is more or less a celibate one. It has always been agreed that when we get back to the UK he will have the snip and he's been quite determined that he does not want another child.
So today I casually mention that I have started my period, to which he replies "Yippee! You're not pregnant!"
"Fat chance!" I say "Not unless I've been subject to an immaculate conception or an entity"
I then tease him about his lack of libido and say that it's probably a fear of having another baby that's to blame for this. To which he replies "Yes but if we were trying for one I'd probably be more keen"
"You'd be more keen once you have the snip" I say.
"I might not want the snip" he says
"Yes you do, you don't want another baby"
"I might do!"
"No, you don't"
"But ds might want another brother or sister might you ds! And I might want another daughter or son"
"You're lying"
"I have't thought about it much, but I might want another baby"
I was too stunned to continue and he's gone off to do his work on the black. I do not want another baby and I really thought he felt the same way! This is either a wind-up or his way of testing me out. Tbh, I think he was half serious, just seeing what my reaction would be!
In the midst of everything that is going on - can someone please tell me what on earth he is thinking? I'm going to have to do to emotional switchoff I think. Box it all up, file it with the others and mark 'To be Dealt With at a Later Date' on it!