I have been with dp for 18 months. About 3 months into the relationship he admitted that he had used prostitutes before we got together. There was a 4 year gap between him splitting up with his ex wife and us getting together and he says he used hookers approx 5 times during this period. This does not include 'happy endings' he had during massages in Asia, as apparently they don't count. I suspect it was far more than 5 times.
When he told me all this I felt sick at the thought of it but as everything was perfect back then in the honeymoon period, I decided to overlook it. My own sexual past has been fairly colourful and while I've never been involved in prostitution, I have had threesomes and been quite promiscuous. He says that there is no difference between my past and his past, and that he finds mine hard to accept.
I haven't even thought about it for ages but this evening it came up in conversation again. We were talking about age gaps and he admitted tat the youngest person he had slept with was 'about' 15 years younger than him. He then admitted it was one of the times he paid for it. This brought back all the feelings I had initially about his past but even more so as it would have meant that he was using hookers that were barely out of their teens. I feel like he exploited these girls as its unlikely they were mature enough to be making rational decisions about what they were doing.
Am I being a hypocrite and overreacting? I can't seem to let go of these feelings.