I've been seeing this bloke for about 4 or 5 months now. Generally we get along great. He was upfront and honest with me at the start to tell me he is still married (separated 5 yrs now)
The problem I'm having is the fact that he still sees her on a regular basis for dinner and drinks out. I've never been invited along although I would like to meet her.
So I'm right in the throes of moving house and he tells me he's taking her to the theatre on Saturday night. He's never taken me to the theatre! I'm not a jealous person, far from it, but it just now feels that I'm never going to be his number one. He refuses to get a divorce. There are no children and he can certainly afford to get one, he just won't.
We've talked about it over and over again but he just won't budge. He says she's his best friend which I think is utter bollocks. If they were best friends, surely they'd be living together as married people do.
He hasn't even told her that he's been seeing me!
Any ideas?