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I knew this day would come.. but is it too soon?

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ProperStumped · 06/06/2013 21:25

Namechanged for another post, but can't be arsed changing back.

I've just had a facebook conversation with DD, who's upstairs Grin asking me whether she can go on a camping trip.... overnight.... in a couple of weeks with the gang of kids she knocks about with.

I am showing you the FB convo, partly because I am Grin about it, and partly because I am Shock about it

Her: oh yeah, sorry. right ok ive been invited to a camping trip with everyone. On the 22nd till the 23rd. And i know i asked a while ago, but you said "Ask me when your older". And i know you probably thought i never would, but sorry.

Me: Who is going? Who are you sharing a tent with? Where is it, and how are you getting there?

Her: Me, H, J, D, C, maybe C. Sharing a tent with the girls. Not decided on where it is yet. betweent wo local places. Getting dropped off or walking if its the second option

Me: Is there drink? Do any of you fancy each other? Tell me the truth.

Her: oh my god. no and no. except H and C.
and if there is drink, they havent told me and i wont be having any as i look like a fool. and it tastes rank

WWYD? She's a really sensible kid, trustworthy and I'm very proud of her. But is she too young? Is there going to be shenanigans?

She's 16 in November.

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ProperStumped · 20/06/2013 20:34

EXACTLY WHAT YOU BOTH SAID!!

She's so naive. I'm glad she is, in a way, but she hasn't got a clue what goes on. Getting spiked is my worst fear for her. Anything could happen. That shit gets out of control, I can remember it well Grin

I just feel sorry for her. She's gutted, and she's a good kid and I can't let her go. Obviously I'm not going to change my mind, and she's just going to have to suck it up - and that is craperoo at that age. At any age actually!

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ProperStumped · 20/06/2013 20:36

I know, exotic If I knew them, I would tell them. I cannot imagine coming home to something like that, I would hit the roof Angry

Little shits. Teenagers though, innit. I'm just really glad it's not mine. Yet Wink

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exoticfruits · 20/06/2013 22:06

You have to hope that they are not naive enough to put it on FB.

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