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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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Fresh Start, no more losers.

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LoserNoMore · 21/05/2013 08:38

Just thought I'd start a new thread, general chit chat, moaning, skipping etc before I go to work and incase the other one fills up.

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buildingmycorestrength · 09/07/2013 22:47

Alright, you? Not nice being without the kids, horrible, I think. Really makes you feel at sea, like you don't know who you are any more. .

JaxTellerIsAllMine · 09/07/2013 22:48

LNM - you are sounding really down and not yourself. Dont do anything to harm yourself.

imtheonlyone · 09/07/2013 22:49

Hope you sleep well LNM. We'll all still be here for when you need us.
Hope you sleep well
Worried about you though.
Pls check in again soon x

Fairenuff · 09/07/2013 22:51

Ok, I think I read a 'good night' there LNM so I hope you're off to bed. Drink as much water as you can and check in tomorrow to let us know you're ok?

LoserNoMore · 09/07/2013 22:54

Nah I've been here before not the same. Once n for all it's over,got gfgkm and it's. dir Af

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OliviaMMumsnet · 09/07/2013 22:57

Hello OP
Sorry you're feeling like this
WE would urge you to seek RL professional help
More info here
Kindest

LoserNoMore · 09/07/2013 23:01

Yeah ok standard reply fonyiunreally know how I feel really doesn't matter anyway. Person who matters doesn't

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Alwayskeptalidon · 09/07/2013 23:01

This too shall pass LNM. An old saying and very true as said ^^ by Faire and theonly

Take your time, you need to heal. You have been through a lot and none of it your doing.

Bless you!

LoserNoMore · 09/07/2013 23:07

Argh so why did post get reported? I'm not sure fix it, noo me wil ever know his it dwells

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imtheonlyone · 09/07/2013 23:11

I guess because you've said some worrying things. Because we all really care about you. Because we don't want you to be sad.
Because we want to help

LoserNoMore · 09/07/2013 23:15

Ha care about mr? Why, who would care, no one, please pleased don't do that. I am so not worth caring about, and I don't mean it as I feel all sorry for msscv I do t care

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Cutitup · 09/07/2013 23:15

Hi LNM, I've been reading your posts from the very beginning and you are an inspiration to me. Thank you so much for being so strong, you have helped me through such a tough time and given ME strength. Imagine a stranger giving someone else power on an internet forum. Well, YOU DID! BRAVO YOU!
I can see you are going through a tough time now. Try and be strong for one more day and see how it goes. You have so much love from you MN friends and you sound like a great mum. I almost fell a bit it love with you and your strength from your first post and I have thought about you every day since your OP.

Put the drink down and have a cuppa. You will be fine. Go to bed and sleep for 8 hours. I am thinking of you and wishing you only the best. If you are feeling desperate, come back and post. I'll be here waiting for you. Big unmumnsetty hugs xxx

buildingmycorestrength · 09/07/2013 23:17

LNM this is the drink talking. Have some water, have a wee, then go to bed. Don't let your head get muddled, just go.

LoserNoMore · 09/07/2013 23:21

Omg I TC funny I'm not giving caring I appreciate everything I really do. But to night no Mayer what I'm sure it'd iver

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Cutitup · 09/07/2013 23:27

We are all worried about you now LNM. Go to bed you brave woman. Sleep on it. Tomorrow is day to relish.

LoserNoMore · 09/07/2013 23:29

No one need worry I'm nothing to anyoneitdisent matter.

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imtheonlyone · 09/07/2013 23:30

Think of your beautiful girls LNM. They need you. Look at all the inspiration you've given us all! There are so many reasons why we care and admire you!

Cutitup · 09/07/2013 23:33

Think about your girls. That's all you need to think about. Think about them while you're in bed and go to sleep now. Big hugs xx

LoserNoMore · 09/07/2013 23:35

They are sh only thing about. They are my world and I just hinder them, they'll be fine. Big family to look after them

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ItsNotUnusualToBe · 09/07/2013 23:37

It gets easier OP. I abso-fucking-lutely promise you.

Hang on in there.

LeaveTheBastid · 09/07/2013 23:39

Don't let this man ruin any more of, or take your life. You are an amazingly strong woman, even the strongest fall to their knees at times, there is no shame in that. Close your eyes and feel everyone who has followed your story from the beginning reaching out to you and pulling you straight back up. You don't belong down there.

Drinking makes everything a million times worse. Go to bed. Wake up and see the sun shining, dust yourself off and carry on, because you can. And quite honestly sweetie, you have no choice, your beautiful girls have seen to that

Cutitup · 09/07/2013 23:40

You don't hinder them. You nurture them.

My mum grew up without a mother (she died in childbirth) and my Mum has never got over it. She is now 77 and still mourns her mother.

You have to stay strong for YOUR GIRLS. XX

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LoserNoMore · 09/07/2013 23:47

Dose t matter really, in grAnd scheme of things.

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Cutitup · 09/07/2013 23:48

YES IT DOES.

LoserNoMore · 09/07/2013 23:54

It doesn't pods get over more, I'm sorry. They do. Irradiated about itv all the time

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