WANKER Sti testing

[currentlyconfuseddotcom]

I was with someone for a very very long time and he told me whilst we were together that if he cheated then he would not let me know. He would not tell me.

We split up, I go for Sti testing (neg) and let him know because it IS important and the clinic said to let him know. Now he is questioning why I did that and being insultive. This makes me so mad.

[Lweji]

The clinic just wanted to have another client...

[AnyFucker]

Plenty of weird posters around. as ever

[RootinTootin]

Is it just me or does the OP sound almost disappointed she doesnt have an sti as it means she can't use it as a stick to beat her ex with?

[Kione]

Clinics only ask to get in contact if results are positive.
I find the OPost weird or the OP didn't understand correctly.

[ilovechips]

I work in a GUM clinic and would never advise people to communicate negative results like that - just because one partner is clear it doesn't mean the other one is, and communicating the negative results could result in a false sense of security. I always advise that both partners are tested.

[Booyhoo]

i think some people just need to have drama. so create it.

[pinkyredrose]

I always call all my ex lovers and share my negative STI results. Sometimes it ends in a rant and sometimes we have a good laugh about it.

I thought that was normal? Admittedly it does take me a few days to phone them all.

[AnyFucker]

pinky, isn't that arse-roads about ?

don't you share a negative STI test with prospective lovers ?

it's a bit bloody late to wait until after the deed has been done, isn't it ?

[Booyhoo]

i think pinky was having a joke on OP's behalf with that one. as in "i always tell ex lovers my sti results- it's completely normal dontcha know" sort of thing.

could be wrong though and pinky might just be odd.

[Booyhoo]

sorry. not on OP's behalf. at OP's expense is what i meant there.

[pinkyredrose]

BOO yes was having a joke!

[AnyFucker]

thank gawd for that