Dating thread no 51

[JulietteMontague]

All tales of online and real life dating here!

[KinNora]

The very best of British luck Juliette - geddin there

[Snapespeare]

Whoop juliette!

[VelvetSpoon]

Juliette hope all is going well!

[JulietteMontague]

Very nice man, polite all as it should be. Except that I stated to yawn

Someone just backed into my car trying to park whilst im sitting here. I think 'sorry' would have been the correct response not staring at me

[48howdidthathappen]

Sounds fab Scumbag Great init

[48howdidthathappen]

Is your car ok?

So a no goer then?

[KinNora]

Well that's bobbins, Juliette was he just a bit dull ? Is there any damage to your car ?

[JulietteMontague]

He was very dull, nice enough but there wasn't even enough there to be friends. He is also very photogenic, bless.

Car is fine, it tuned into fiasco involving the man taking over his gf car, him also unable to get into the space and me watching. They drove off

[lubeybooby]

Oh dearie dearie me

Oh dear oh dear oh dear oh dear.

I have just had a MASSIVE sob fest over missing BC

1. I do not do sobbing
   
   
2. especially not over a man
   
   2b) especially not over a man I was FINE about moving away over four months ago and haven't shed a tear over in that time
   
   
3. I do not listen to soppy songs and make it worse
   
   except I just did all those . Well no actually the song was on first and I burst into tears and instead of changing it I carried on and snivelled and sobbed.
   
   
   So, this is new.
   
   Crying. Great. I hate crying. It had better not be a new 'lubes as a non smoker' thing
   
   I mean I know the tendency to cry is related to withdrawal but it had better not last longer than the withdrawal period and be a new personality quirk or something.
   
   Tell me it's just withdrawal and that I am not suddenly going to be a spineless and pathetic sniveller long term.
   
   Please? Please?

[JulietteMontague]

It is just withdrawal, honestly.

It happens, its unpredictable, it will go away again.

Stay away from soppy songs, no good ever came of that.

[KinNora]

It's just withdrawal Lubey -any chance it could be hormonal too ?

( in the meantime, big hug and )

[KinNora]

Oh god almighty, yes, stay away from soppy songs as Juliette says ( I've got a great long list of songs I avoid )

[JulietteMontague]

Crying is also the withdrawal symptom that kicks in to stop you doing a stretch in Holloway, or throwing one in Greggs because someone took the last sausage roll or painting your wall magenta.

[VelvetSpoon]

Oh Lubey, thats :(

Watch the french cats on youtube, they will make you smile!

[Scrazy]

It's just withdrawal, the chemistry in your brain is changing.

I carn't see my ex again, he's going to hurt me isn't he? He on the other hand would be more than happy to start over again but nothing will change.

[VelvetSpoon]

Scrazy I think that's probably the case :( Is he offering any more than last time, or just to go back to how things were? How was it seeing him yesterday?

[JulietteMontague]

Scrazy no contact. He messed with your head before, he will do it again and has basically said as much.

[Scrazy]

Velvet, no I don't think he is going to change. Yesterday was brilliant, that's the problem, we have such a great time together but that is all there is. I need to spill it all to him this time.

[Snapespeare]

lubey it is just withdrawal, but you now what? - it's OK to have a bit of a weep every now and again. it really doesn't make you any less kick-ass you know. :)

[lubeybooby]

Thanks you everyone and thank you snape. That's good, because I really couldn't bear to be any less kick ass than I am.

I think I'm scared of going back to the days of poor mental health and crying a lot, is the problem. Something I noticed about the well version of myself, is that I really don't do crying very much.

I think even the hellish Big Bad Break Up only got a total of three snivels out of me. So it's a big deal when I cry.

Well, when I cry about me that is ... give me a soppy film or extreme makeover home edition and that's a different story :o

I think BC was the outlet of choice today because he text this morning saying he was thinking of me and trying to find the time to write to me properly. Aw.

[Scrazy]

Lubey, I am exactly the same, very rarely cry at anything personal. Can sob at a film and even watching BGT today .

[lubeybooby]

Oh god BGT got me as well... the shadow artists? I bet it was. Haha.

[Scrazy]

Yes, that was the one.

[lubeybooby]

Knew it! Oh bloody hell I just welled up again thinking of the story.

I really must locate my grip.

[Scrazy]

I'm off out for some chocolate, got a strange craving as I hardly eat the stuff, normally.