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you haven't cooked for 2 day's

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1996timeforchange · 16/03/2013 17:40

I want to throw a brick at his head ( not really, but the thought is,, ooooo!!)

Ate out last night and he went and got take away the night before, but normally i'm waiting on everyone hand and fist, i just made a comment ( cause he's been sat on his butt all day watching sport on the tv) i've not done much either today tbh, so i said to my little one , i'll cook dinner in a minute cause i don't suppose anyone else will, he spat straight away you haven't cooked for 2 day's, he meant the dinner, but the fact i still provide everyone with breakfast, lunch, endless cup's of tea and snack's, i could have in that second bloody killed him,, TWAT!!! now i've said it, Rant over, thank you in anticipation, i feel so much better for getting it out, may have a glass of wine to celebrate, ( i wonder if i call him if he's do it for me Wink

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stargirl1701 · 16/03/2013 17:42

Why on earth are you waiting on everyone hand and foot?

He sounds abusive.

hellhasnofurylikeahungrywoman · 16/03/2013 17:43

So you replied with "And you last cooked when....?" I hope.

SizzleSazz · 16/03/2013 17:44

I can't remember when i last cooked. Tuesday i think Grin

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1996timeforchange · 16/03/2013 17:51

stargirl. Because i like to, most of the time!! No just a man Grin They don't have a clue
Hellhasnofury Oh you heard me Wink plus a few other choice words

He's now in the kitchen Cooking.. Result i say!!

i may send or my wine now!! Wink

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tribpot · 16/03/2013 17:53

'They don't have a clue'. Do you really believe that?

badinage · 16/03/2013 17:58

Lots of men have a clue actually.

Just as lots of women wouldn't dream of being a skivvy and a doormat.

You do have a choice about whether you enable this situation or carry on with it.

Original poster
1996timeforchange · 16/03/2013 18:01

No was just jesting, but there are different types of men, women and relationship's, sometimes men who work are not really aware of how much a housewife actually does!! Meant in a lighthearted manner Wink

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Xales · 16/03/2013 18:03

When my partner is over, I come home from work at lunch time and lunch is ready within 5 - 10 minutes of me getting in.

He loves and is happy doing it.

Plenty of men have a clue. Lazy, entitled men (and women) don't have a clue.

badinage · 16/03/2013 18:06

Yes there are different 'types' of everyone. There are lazy and selfish types and there are people who make excuses for them based on their ownership of a penis. You don't have to be one of those 'types' do you?

Trills · 16/03/2013 18:09

so i said to my little one , i'll cook dinner in a minute cause i don't suppose anyone else will

Sounds to me like you started the argument here.

Do you generally make digs at him by speaking to your child? How old is he/she? Old enough to notice you sniping at each other?

Original poster
1996timeforchange · 16/03/2013 18:09

xales, i'm affraid, i've made him lazy, no-one to blame but myself, just have to let him know occasionally he's as good as gold and now i have my wine so happy Grin i love mn makes me laugh, when i've had my rant

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Original poster
1996timeforchange · 16/03/2013 18:10

trill's - really get over it

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Trills · 16/03/2013 18:11

Get over what?

Original poster
1996timeforchange · 16/03/2013 18:13

i'm no doormat believe me, and happy with my lot, so you never want a little rant???

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Original poster
1996timeforchange · 16/03/2013 18:15

Yes there are different 'types' of everyone. There are lazy and selfish types and there are people who make excuses for them based on their ownership of a penis. You don't have to be one of those 'types' do you?

Have no idea what your on about tbh Hmm

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badinage · 16/03/2013 18:16

Sometimes it's like being transported in time back to the 1950s on here, when women had to self-medicate with mother's ruin to get through the days....Angry

But hey, carry on running around after everyone, communicating your frustration through your kids and ranting into cyberspace about bricks and heads. If that makes you 'happy with your lot' rock on. Just don't expect other posters to humour you.

Original poster
1996timeforchange · 16/03/2013 18:19

Honestly, so so funny!!

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Trills · 16/03/2013 18:22

Is that code for "I don't like the way this thread is going"?

Loulybelle · 16/03/2013 18:29

Gotta a love a snappy OP, who gets told things she probably didnt consider or wanna hear.

badinage · 16/03/2013 18:32

Or understand.

Original poster
1996timeforchange · 16/03/2013 18:34

Oh dear are you a little disappointing, nothing much happening, OP is Not snappy or bothered tbh, just don't understand people who really get over involved and quiet abusive in these post's, this was meant in a very lighthearted way, and my child has a very very happy life thank you
And thanks again for the entertainment..
Must go and get some more Mothers ruin (although i thought that was gin!!)

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HenD19 · 16/03/2013 18:35

Nice one Badinage!

stargirl1701 · 16/03/2013 18:57

Eh? Just a man? No man I know behaves like that.

Trills · 16/03/2013 18:58

Over involved?

Nope.

Just commenting on the scenario as you presented it to us.

Any less involved and we wouldn't reply at all.

Buzzardbird · 16/03/2013 19:23

There are two sides to every story...

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