I know the answer is yes
Recently DH has been very attached to his phone. Initially thought it was because dd is more mobile and grabby. But now have noticed that if he leaves the room in the evening he'll take it.
So yesterday he made an error and left it charging in the study when he went out. I wasn't looking for it but when I saw it I couldn't resist looking.
I saw loads of texts between him and a female name. There was a red heart from her to him on valentine's day. He texts her night night every night. She sent him a message saying HFKA. He texted back? The reply was happy first... X.
I can only think this means happy first kiss anniversary? Can you think of any even unlikely other options?
The last text sent today said sorry you're I'll. Let me know if you need some looking after...
This has to be an affair doesn't it. And clearly for 12months. There were no texts before feb so presumably been deleted.
So do I confront now? Or see a solicitor first?
Things haven't been great the last 3 mo but I thought things were ok last year. I thought I was at fault but it's him isn't it