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What to think to this email?

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sparklyjumper · 03/02/2013 00:59

Checked at 12 there was a message at 10.30pm saying he's sorry for everything he's done and all the misery he's put me through I deserve someone better and this is the last time me or anyone will hear off him. I've tried to ring but no answer I'm sure he's fast asleep or probably even laughing at me but what if he's not? Do I just leave it until morning?

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LifeofPo · 03/02/2013 21:26

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Lueji · 03/02/2013 21:28

Or forward his emails to his family/friends and tell them to take care of him.

Or to the police.
They might commit him to a mental health hospital. You know, for his own safety.

scottishmummy · 03/02/2013 21:36

its all getting too convoluted,no don't pass to anyone else.keep simple.ignore
dreadful idea to pass on or get others involved
you need shot of this guy not more he sad,I said,family said

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sparklyjumper · 03/02/2013 21:58

Kalidanger I really don't think any of it's funny at all. I thought I loved him all I've wanted was a normal relationship with him and everytime it seemed to be going that way he's acted ridiculous. I have finally woke up and smelt the coffee and realised the whole thing can't go on or I will go insane so I just wanted it to end somewhat amicably, certainly not to stay friends or stay in touch or anything like that but without police, suicide threats or anything else.

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Hissy · 03/02/2013 21:59

I agree. This is all done for show, for effect.

If he ever mentions suicide again, don't call him, call 101. If he threatens you, 101. Don't ever respond to any contact from him.

Hissy · 03/02/2013 22:02

This wasn't ever a normal relationship, and never would have been. It was an abusive relationship, your destruction is his goal in life.

He needs to be evicted from every aspect of your life. Now.

You won't get anything good from being anywhere near him.

CleopatrasAsp · 04/02/2013 07:42

Just bin him. Block all messages, phone calls etc because by engaging with him you are feeding the drama. He's a knob and you've had a lucky escape. If he chucks himself under a bus it isn't your fault so stop taking responsibility.

lemonstartree · 04/02/2013 08:34

Responding, in any way, just feeds the drama. DO NOT RESPOND. Ignore him

Then do some work on why you feel you should be made to feel bad just because you don't want to see someone ? Unless there is some tiny part of you that is enjoying the drama, feeding off the excitement, In which case do some work on that - why would you want to be attached to someone who is so destructive, manipulative and pathetic ?

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