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Text recieved: You're wasting your time with someone who wont commit.

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fairyfly · 25/04/2006 19:27

Well, i kind of saw that one coming, obviously needed it spelling out to me.

Still doesn't stop it hurting like hell though, but i'm sure it won't take long. Well practiced at this broken heart shite.

I know i should have ended it myself ages ago, i was just putting off grieving him.

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fairyfly · 26/04/2006 19:20

Do you know what fastasleep, i think i have eventually become bitter. I don't believe men are good for me anymore. I think they just fancy me and lead me on.

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beetroot · 26/04/2006 19:22

that will change ff, you are bound to feel bitter for now

fastasleep · 26/04/2006 19:23

FF, have you ever thought about becoming a... nevermind I don't want an axe embedded in my head!

There is a guy out there I know it I just know it and you have to trust me or else.

sunchowder · 26/04/2006 19:24

Sorry FF....:(

ruty · 26/04/2006 19:30

sorry FF, horrible situation i know. brings back memories. I still think you'd be better out of it.

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fairyfly · 26/04/2006 19:37

Yes i have thought about becoming a lesbian but women moan, cry and quite franky aren't fit.

I like stubble and blokiness.

I have got good news, i haven't given McPoet my new mobile no. so life is peaceful.

I am also quite aware of the process i should do now. It's just fucking difficult to put it into practice. My head is ace. My heart behaves like an unhinged lunatic.

I got a text off lovestick today and my eyes went all tearful. I hardly know my college mates intimately, we just chat and share the same place, have shallow lunch hours. They haven't seen me like that before and i got a wonderful wonderful u hug off one of them.

College is the way forward.

No more men.

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sykes · 26/04/2006 19:55

I probably won't be able to call then - if you have a mobuile number. Text me if you need/want a chat.

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fairyfly · 26/04/2006 19:59

I can't sykes, i tried to tell you that on the phone. I don't have any of your numbers anymore. Not one.

You will have to ring my landline xxxxxxxx

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sykes · 26/04/2006 20:16

But I can't remember the number - can you do it in code?

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fairyfly · 26/04/2006 20:23

I'm really not going to put my phone number up on the internet, i'm a sucker for drama, tell me which email you're using or tey msn and i'll give it you.

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sykes · 26/04/2006 21:00

Can't msn - will try a number of different numbers and hope to strike it lucky. Am using old e-mail? fs thingy?

sykes · 26/04/2006 21:01

Can't msn - will try a number of different numbers and hope to strike it lucky. Am using old e-mail? fs thingy?

sykes · 26/04/2006 21:01

Can't msn - will try a number of different numbers and hope to strike it lucky. Am using old e-mail? fs thingy?

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fairyfly · 26/04/2006 21:17

Just email me now, bhuna at msn dot com

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fairyfly · 27/04/2006 08:01

It's actually starting to get really painful now, i cna't believe i've lost him.

It's all shite.

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Pixiefish · 27/04/2006 08:08

sorry bout this fairyfly. thinikikng of you xx

sykes · 27/04/2006 12:33

Sorry, fell asleep. Not due to this thread. I'll e-mail you, hope today isn't too bad.

bluejelly · 27/04/2006 13:36

Sorry to hear about this ff. I too split up with a dastardly commitment phobe recently. We were together for 18 months and he was hot and cold virtually throughout. One minute he was loving and lovely to me and my dd, talking of love, marriage and more kids.
Then he couldn't handle what he described as my 'situation' (ie my being a mother) and would start being mean and selfish. Everytime i threatened to leave he would become all charming and sweet again.

By feb I'd had enough. Issued an ultimatum which he squirmed and squirmed at. I called it a day.
Not saying i'm really happy now, some days it hurts hugely, but I feel that i've made the right decision.

The crunch for me came when I asked myself the question, would I rather be in this relationship or another one, with a continuously loving and supportive man. Chose the latter. Who know when it will happen but decided that it was worth holding out for.

Anyway that's just my experience. HTH

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