Dating chat thread still going! Number 39

[lubeybooby]

Here we are all

Dating related chit chat here

yeah, i know, its hard to tell. i might have enjoyed it, a TINY bit.
You know, but thats only because ive been pushed to admit that.

fucking hell. So, this is my plan, this makes sense... or tell me if it doesnt?

Ill whats app ( free texts for those not in the know, sort of like an instant messenger thing, and how we have been communicating) him later, just saying that this morning was awesome and i hope he slept well.

aND then ill see what happens and go from there. Hes not got any lenght of time off till next fri, then hes off for two weeks. Selfishly, dd is at her dads and id quite like to fill that time with lots of sex.... so im hoping it can make it that long. And yes, while i am ' liking' him, self presevation is at my core, and should i like him too much, id have to stop it, because thats not good for anyone at all, you know.

I'm going to at you again watch

Yes, a text early evening, see what transpires.

Not selfish at all to be greedy want to have a repeat. :)

Liking him 'too much' shouldn't be a problem and shouldn't lead to stopping it. We can't live our lives with the past hanging over us. This is all new and exciting and endorphins pinging and it's great...all it takes is the tiniest bit of like (& 24 condoms and a bottle of rum...and an amazing arse) for it to maybe turn into something spectacular. That might just be a lot of sex...that's equally good!

I know this is a bit romantic-bollocks and I blame the proximity of valentines day. But it might actually be awesome. Awesome is good. I know I'm saying 'listen when he tells you that he isn't after anything 'heavy' but people can change their minds I think when you like him 'too much' if you get to like him 'too much' then have a reappraisal... And just enjoy just now. :)

(Disclaimer: I never take my own advice as evidenced by micro-pizzle (voldemorts new name)

lulu your poor mum!

;) we are chatting. he has decalred it the hottest thing thats ever happened.

thanks, sound advice. im just going to go with it. I never fancy anyone. If i do i dont ' like' them. You arent the first person to say that this might be awesome. Of course it might not be. But it might.

it will happen again, no doubt about that. He might have said nothing heavy, but hes instigating the conatct and asking to see me more than i am.

I think it just needs to be given the time for it to be whatever it is, you know.

just to continue posting to myself, i shall confirm there will be a repeat performance, definatley.
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Watch and goat boy up the tree
K-I-S-S-I-N-G

it's good that you're having fun watch..esp as his behaviour at first would seem like a big red flag to many women.
The more info we can share on what is and isnt a red flag the better!

See. I didnt think it did. Else i wouldnt have seen him again.

Perhaps its in context. My behaviour could be seen as ' red flag' i licked the lenght of face. . .

We contact a lot. Red flag to some, i like it. Too little would also be a red flag, no?

I think its about trusting judgements and what ypur gut says. If something feels wrong, it usually is.

I still reckon he will turn out to be an arse, possibly the worst of the lot so far... and true colours were shown... BUT I am glad you are having fun and I hope I'm wrong :o

Watch I suppose the thread would be boring without you over sharing the cum stuff, so it might be only me who cringes a little.

Ike, I might go for a coffee with the guy who recognises me from the past, at least he will have some idea of what a munter I am.

Actually reading back (ignoring the c word) he sounds very romantic, especially the notes and the holding something you gave him. He might surprise us.

not just you scrazy..i'm no fan over overindulgent kiss and tell either!

pah, im not the only one, there has been all kinds of discussion on here regarding everything from how you have your pubic hair, to lenght and girth of penis's.

Ill make you now instead of cringe and tell you i spent a fair bit of time upside down. I have not done a handstand since i was about 11......

i dont think hes bad or awful, else i wouldnt have seen him. The notes were lovely, hes a sweet guy i think.

did the blood rush to your head watch?

i couldnt tell you snape, my brain wasnt really thinking about that, it was otherwise distracted :)

I'm not [shocked]. You missed the point I was making. If other people post stuff you don't like to see you pick them up on it. I was just doing the same. It's probably just me, I'm sure everyone else loves your updates.

Phew, Mercury, I was imagining being hounded of the thread.

scrazy, what, what are you on about, for goodness sake.

yes, its probably you, trying to cause some kind of argument.... i dont pick people up for stuff, i picked bant up for being an arse/ rude. but actually, most of the time i didnt, i was just defending myself when he attacked me.

I have no wish to get into an argument, please dont be nasty, there is really no need.
Again, noone picked bant up when he was going on about his 5x worth of coffee, or western talking about her basque. Or ike talking about waxing. Its just picking on me for picking on mes sake. Just stop it, yeah.

I've been meaning to say, Yoga, if you're lurking, hope you're ok, that work is still going well and that your dd is being slightly more amenable.

Same as what Nora said, I was thinking about Yoga yesterday.

I know it's weird, isn't it Flipper ? I've just wondered how she is a couple of times recently.

( hope you're ok, by the way)