Been together less than 6 months. At first I thought he was the best thing since sliced bread, couldn't get enough of him but now .... :-(
He's nothing specific that he's done. I just don't get excited about 'us' anymore. The spark has gone already. We rarely have sex and when we do it's predictable and dull. When he stays over here we just sit in front of the TV, lately he's just fallen asleep on me leaving me sat bored and frustrated that I could be getting on with other stuff rather than sat being a pillow for a 6ft, 41 year old man.
He has so many issues going on in his head. Still cut up about his divorce (2 years ago), scared stiff of upsetting his kids (15 and 17 year olds, therefore I can't meet them or mention 'us' on facebook incase they see it - although he tells me he did tell them about me and they were fine with it 
) I can't talk to him through fear of him panicking and saying I'm pressuring him -
So we have arrived at this plateau - He stays here 3 nights a week, we watch tv and then we go to bed (to sleep!). We text the same shit back and forth every day (apart from sundays when I cease to exist as his children are there - no I'm not jealous or bitter, I just don't see why him having his teenagers means I have to be COMPLETELY ignored - I mean, it takes seconds to send a text). Yeah we go out and we do have a good time but the rest of it outweighs that.
He booked us flights for a holiday two weeks ago. For two weeks I've been trying to arrange a time when we can organise a hotel together - the night we were supposed to do it, he fell asleep all evening - two weeks later, it still hasn't been done. You know when you just wonder why you bother?
I keep telling myself "give it until Christmas" that will be the 6 month mark and if no improvement, end it but the thought of being like this until the new year depresses me.
If I talk to him, what do I say?? he gets so bloody defensive and jumpy I dread trying to talk to him about this kind of stuff. He normally just says "if thats how you feel, maybe we should break up?" - it's almost like he wants to break up but wants me to be the one to do it.
I'd say he was losing interest but if so - why has he arranged to spend Christmas day with me instead of with his family like he originally planned? why did he book us a holiday two weeks ago? why does he keep offering to do stuff for me like fix stuff in my house or pick me up from nights outs? Friday night he was outside in the freezing cold burying my beloved guinea pig!!
Is it him or me??