I've had a few threads about this. Boyfriend suggesting things like moving in together and me meeting his kids etc only to turn it back on me and say I'm pressuring him. You all told me to have it out with him. Well, here's what happened.
We're sat on the sofa and he says "will you marry me?"
I'm startled for a few seconds and then see that he's laughing. I've seriously had enough of these mind games so simply laughed and said "yeah, like that would work!". He then got all serious and said "what do you mean by that?? why did you say that??" so I said "well, there's a few things we need to sort out before thinking about THAT don't ya think!" and he replied "like what?"
So, deciding enough is enough I say "you know what, I'm not even going to go into it. You know what I'm on about."
He replies "are you talking about us moving in together again?" and I reply "no, something we need to organise even before that".
He says "do you mean meeting my kids?".
So I said "I'm not going to go into with you, and to be honest, I'm starting to think you enjoy messing with my head."
Now this sparks off our first argument in which he denies playing games and again accusses me of rushing him into things. I then say "you just asked me to marry you!!" and he replies "I was joking for fucks sake!"
I said "well nice to know it's all just a big laugh for you, you don't even realise what you're doing to me do you". His final words on it were "I think you need to stop taking things so seriously".
So was I in the wrong?? he made me feel like I totally over-reacted!