I want a boob job.

[WiltingRoses]

I'm not some air head who wants to get her giant tits out, ala Jordan.

I'm a mum whos had 4 children and whos boobs have gone completely south.

Its not something I could just get done, its something I would have to save, long and hard for. And I'd also feel very selfish as there are other things we could save for that would benefit our family rather than just me.

My husband would rather I didn't. But I wouldn't be doing it for him, or anyone else, it would be for me.

I'm over weight by a stone or two, I know I can sort that, but I cannot sort my boobs out,

The more weight I loose the thinner and saggier they become.

It makes me want to cry when I catch a glimpse of myself.

I have no confidence when being intimate with DH if he wants to take my bra off, which of course he does!

I spend the whole time try to hold, or cover or pull my top back over them, I dread certain positions as my breasts hang down and I can't stop thinking about them during sex and can't get into it.

The whole thing from start to finish is 'how can I hide my boobs or make them look more pert / stop them from hanging low.

I never wear low cut clothing, I'd never start wearing low cut clothing.

I just want to feel normal again and good about myself. And have sex with the man I love and who loves me unconditionally without these thoughts.

:(

I’ve had them done 10 years ago, after DC1, they looked incredible. I’ve BF 2 more kids since then and they still look pretty good although not as perfect as when they were first done. I’ve never had any other surgery and unlikely to. Even the thought of Botox squicks me out. I did my research and went to the most reputable Harley Street doctor I could find, it wasn’t cheap, cost £5k but you get what you pay for. Don’t ever scrimp on cosmetic surgery.

I also chose the smaller of the size he recommended for me and it looks very natural

I’m OK with mine but it’s about £5k-£6k and as any surgery involves risk it’s a good idea to get down to your target weight first. Start by talking to your GP for a referral. In the meantime be honest with your DH and share your anxiety regarding intimacy , I’m sure he’ll understand and do anything he can to make you comfortable.

@PrimeroseHillAnnie
This is a super old thread which I resurrected as I wanted to see if the OP was still active on MN.
But I am after RL advice on a boob jobs as I'm seriously thinking about it.
I have a surgeon in mind, I have the money and am at my ideal weight so now I'm doing the research.

Did anyone do anything to give the visual effect of the size - I've heard that bags of rice in the bra 🙄 and is it possible now for the clinics to give computer images of the results with the different implants available?

Maybe I should start my own thread 😬

Not RTFT, but @WiltingRoses,have you thought of exercising with weights.
If you strengthen your pecs, your boobs will look better.

Don't be scared of going for a bra fitting. A good fitter will just know what size you are likely to be, and give you bras to try on. She won't need to see you braless.