I have this 'friend' and she seems like she's competing with me over my romantic life/ For example last year when my mum was dying I was having trouble with my then boyfriend. Said 'friend' was there for me but then took great delight in befriending horrid boyfriend on Facebook and telling me he had asked her out. 2 days before my mum had died. She also told she had flirted with another of my exes at a party.
I confronted her and told her I felt she was treading on my toes but I gave her the benefit of the doubt. In the meantime she dated a man that her friend had told her not to chase as it was her friend's ex. She chased him. Her friend fell out with her and got very angry and was vicious and turned lots of people against her. She is having ongoing problems with him which imo are self inflicted. She is so jealous of his ex (and her ex best mate) as she feels that her ex friend is prettier and better dressed than her. She calls her 'perfect'. I feel like she was competing with her through men.
Fast fowrd. I have a new man who lives abroad. Thois 'mate' has booked a holiday in the exact same town where he lives after I came back from hols in love and telling everyone as you do. We didn't even meet in his hometown so it wasn't just a recommendation.
He is coming to visit half term and there is no way I am going to introduce them . He wouldn't look twice at her but she would do her flirty thing. I just don't like teh way she seems 'on it' with every man I have. She has no boundaries. If any other mate booked a holiday in his town I wouldn't bat an eyelid but because of her track history with going for mate's men I feel abit suspicious. Plus it smacks of taking the copying thing a bit too far.