So one year post divorce. I have had no dealings/interest or anything else in men during the year, I decided to give myself a time out to reassess how I was feeling, what I wanted, who I am etc etc.
And its been great, I no longer feel lonely at night, I have a great routine and i'm happy on my own. Except for sex. I missed the sex 
Soooooo and here it comes.....I went out for a night out with some friends and met a bloke, instant sexual chemistry, lots of flirting, ended the night with a kiss and exchanged numbers. Chatted and texted over the next few weeks. I made it MORE than clear that I was only looking for some no strings fun, no interest in any kind of a relationship (and just in case you aren't already screaming at the screen SLLAAAAAAGGGG) that to be honest I was just looking for a fuck buddy. He was in complete agreement, that was all he wanted etc etc. So we arrange to meet up (obviously for sex)...The sex happens, it was good, we chat for a bit and part on good terms.
I felt AMAZING the next day, I was so glad to have finally got over the hurdle of 'first man since divorce'...I decided to leave contacting him. And later that night he texts asking how I am, that he had had a good night the night before. So I decide to reply 'yes fine, enjoyed myself too, glad you're having a good day'...he texts again flirting and I reply with 'how about a repeat next week if you are free' and so begins the aching, rejection filled SILENCE. This was 48 hours ago.
I don't subscribe to maybe he has died, lost his phone, had his hand cut off. So the only other option is he doesn't want to hook up again. Also known as 'I don't rate you in bed and do not want to sleep with you again'
My phone is mocking me with its silence. I would have been quite happy with a 'sorry not really into another hook up x'. I would have been happy with 'no'. But the silence.......AAARRRRGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH