And always have done. I've tried to get on with him. But he always tells me I'm doing everything wrong. I want to move out. He said I won't be able to manage that on my own. I have a boyfriend. He said I can't hold down a relationship and that I'm only making a hole for myself to fall into by being in a relationship. I volunteer in a nursery. He calls me a mug and said there's no way I'd get a job in childcare because no one is offering jobs. I suggested a possible career in childminding. He told me I'm stupid. Then said I haven't got the mind for it cause I've not been brought up in the business. Closely followed by tellinge about how he buys some supplies for his business very cheap then sells them to customers or friends for hundreds of pounds without checking for safety. All of which come from eBay. (he works as a plumber). He said I'd be better off on benefits because I'm not capable of making a career for myself. He says all of this while my sister isn't around. My sister was going to train to be a midwife in australlia. She turned it down to be with him.
I can't stand him. He criticises everything the family does. The car my dad brought my sister was "a heap of shit" in his words. Not many of my family members will tolerate him and I think I'm the only one who is civil to him. I don't want to hate him but I do. He just seems to think everything he does is perfect. His way is the right way. Instead of helping someone he just puts them down.