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Well he's gone :0(

4 replies

rogersmellyonthetelly · 04/09/2012 19:29

Following on from my thread over the weekend, we agreed yesterday he should move out whilst he has counselling for his "addiction" suddenly it all seems very real. He will be back tomorrow to collect kids from school and give them tea whilst I go to the stables to sort the horse out. Neither of us wants the kids to be upset especially since I hope this will only be temporary.
I just feel so bereft and alone.

OP posts:
OrangeImperialGoldBlether · 04/09/2012 20:28

Sorry, OP, I hadn't seen your other thread. Could you link to it?

rogersmellyonthetelly · 04/09/2012 20:49

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1554096-Dh-is-a-sex-addict-and-I-dont-know-what-to-do-for-the-best
Sorry I'm a bit naff at linking!

OP posts:
izzyizin · 05/09/2012 00:14

Here it is www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1554096-Dh-is-a-sex-addict-and-I-dont-know-what-to-do-for-the-best and, for what it's worth, it sounds as if his 'addiction' is a lifestyle choice.

Markingthehours · 05/09/2012 00:19

YOu will feel all sorts of emotions over the next few weeks OP, but my advice fwiw is to try to just roll with the punches.

You know you have done the right thing and it's best for your DC. The utter desolation feeling will fade honestly as you get used to your new circs - and then you will start to see all the glorious plusses!!

Look after yourself - eat, sleep, relax as much as you can - this too will pass.

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