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When someone makes you uneasy..

57 replies

BBwolefs · 21/08/2012 14:42

What do you do?

I have a friend who is also my DP of 8 yrs mothers godchild. She has "known" DP simce childhood but DP and friends versions of how well / how close differ quite greatly...

This person was in the same year group as me at school but i didnt know her as such, again a history she doesnt seem to remember.. Anyway when I had my DS we started to meet and she seemed fine, however around my DP she always seemed a
Bit odd, a bit OTT?
We were friends for a while and during that time I did a lot for her to support her through tough times. More recently we have drifted and she has done some quite annoyong things to me, although seemingly without intention.

At the last time the two families met again it was all a bit weird and I find the way she is around my DP still unsettling...

Would you cut ties? I think inshould, not in a great dramatic way just in a phase out way..
I am due DC2 this year and have DC1s bday party so think I am likely to have to see them at some point, but gut feeling is that i feel
Uneasy for a reason?

Sorry if its a bit vague i dont want to
Out myself in RL

OP posts:
solidgoldbrass · 22/08/2012 01:14

Look, your OP was utterly incoherent and implied that you dislike this woman because you think she might be trying to shag your DP. I pointed out to you that it's your DP's behaviour, not any other woman's, that you need to concern yourself with if that's the issue, and asked if there was something else about her that bothered you. Then you came back and said you don't like her because she's.... Er. A bit wierd and shouty. Around your DP. And she wasn't nice to you at school because she didn't know who you were.

So no one's really any the wiser about why you don't like her, but FWIW if she's a family member or one of those people who've been so long around your family or inlaws that she's counted as a family member, just be polite and civil but 'busy' when it's suggested that you interact with her. There's always one tiresome person in every family.

akaemmafrost · 22/08/2012 01:24

And by the way NONE of your posts make any sense and I am still no clearer as to WTAF you are on about despite reading the whole thread.

pictish · 22/08/2012 04:33

Neither am I.
Think it's a bit cheeky to get the hump at people who have kindly tried to decipher your meaningless, vague posts and help you.
I haven't a clue what you're on about either.

thesunshinesbrightly · 22/08/2012 06:33

Whoa!! Maybe you should be more concerned about your behaviour...you sound slightly unhinged.

VampiresGymAndSciFi · 22/08/2012 07:21

Next time you write an op make yourself clear - we are not mind readers and your general tone to people who are only trying to help has been very rude and over the top. If I were you I would stop seeing her - you would be doing her a favour it seems...

ThisIsNotHoneyDragon · 22/08/2012 07:38

Just be yourself like you were on here, she'll soon get the message and back off so might everyone else though

HotDAMNlifeisgood · 22/08/2012 08:02

LOL at honeydragon.

Lol at this whole thread - very much a Sharon situation.

(OP: Sharon wasn't a troll. Sharon is just a reference to confusing, ranty postings that make no sense to anyone.)

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