Bit of background: this is my 2nd marriage. Exh was verbally abusive & used to smash things up, never showed affection for years, lived separate lives. Been with dh for 6 years, married 3. He's becoming the same person as exh. Goes off at deep end for the smallest things and continually threatens to leave unless I change ever more aspects of myself. Recently he has started throwing the fact that I should be grateful he took my kids and I on as I'm just a single mum. I'm so unhappy. Aibu to expect more from love/marriage?
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