Already posted on the 'dating' thread about a lovely night we had last night. Only known him just under a month but think he's great, he treats me well, is loving, funny, kind and generous etc -
My major issue is that he blows hot and cold on me and I've posted about this before on here. I thought it was just my paranoia but last night, he admitted he does do this! Reason being - he likes me a lot and it scares him so one minute he's all over me - the next minute he realises he needs to tone it down and cools off. I don't think he realises what this does to me.
Example - had the most amazing night, I slept at his house, we had lots of 'fun' stayed awake most of the night hugging and talking, he told me some really personal, in depth stuff and also told me he hates being apart from me and would like to see us buy a place together eventually. I was all loved up - he went to work this morning leaving me to lock up and post the keys through the letter box. Before he left he hugged me, said he'd had an amazing night and we'd do something else this week before our camping trip on Friday.
An hour later, I left his house and text him that I'd posted the keys etc and said something along the lines of "had a great night, hope you have a good day xx"
He replied "cheers x"
Now all day - he's been quite cool with me. barely texting at all. He usually texts me when he leaves work at 4.30 and today he hasn't.
So he's told me why he blows hot and cold but - I don't like it :( I'm paranoid as it is without this.
Can I tell him it bothers me or will that just come across as being a little desperate "pay me more attention" type comment?