I'll keep it brief. Met a new guy a few weeks ago, I really like him but things are not seeming quite right IYSWIM? spidey senses are tingling. I'm known for being a bit paranoid but something is telling me to be careful here.
It's hard to pinpoint exactly what it is. But one example - he shows me pictures of his house - gorgeous 4 bed detached house - but in the picture it had no furniture in it. Now he did say he's selling it so fair enough, most stuff he'll be getting rid of but he's supposedly still living there?? However he tells me he stays at his mums house a lot to keep her company = his mum lives on a nearby council estate. Nothing wrong with this at all except he seems to be there all the time. And tonight he tells me his mum is away this weekend - seemed to be hinting that he has the house to himself - something flashed through my mind that it's HIS house?? I checked 192. He is listed as living in that postcode but a few years back.
He dropped me off home on Tuesday. He said he was heading in a certain direction home so I said "are you going to your mums?" and he stuttered and couldn't answer me properly. Seemed totally caught off guard.
Another thing - he's on a good wage - yet he only works 9-4pm and seems to have time off whenever he wants. For example we're going out tomorow and he said he'll pick me up at 1pm. I said "are you not at work?" and he said he had the day off?? He also has next monday off.
I am known for being paranoid. Tell me this is a paranoid state I'm in right now?