Hi everyone, just looking for some advice. me an DP have been together 6 years and have 2 DD's 7months and 2 1/2yrs. we have a far from perfect relationship and things have been really bad for the last 6 months (stress of having to small children i think) and we argue a lot. but we do really love eachother and i think its worth saving.
some background on the ex situation. they were together for 6 years but started when they were very young so only lived together as a serious couple 2-3 yrs. they lived next door to eachother there whole childhoods.
he told me he couldn't remember how many times he cheated on her because he was young and stupid. she a skinny bitch and im jelouse of her and hate her! sooo childish i know.
when me and him first moved in together he was always very secretive of his facebook and whenever he had worked away i would see on his phone they had spoke or txt but never in front of me so i was always paranoid about them. one day i found messages in his inbox between them, there was nothing sexual but at the end they had both put 'miss you so much' 'love you so much baby'. i went beserk and made him delete her off facebook.
this was in 2009 since then she has always sent him messages and freind requests that he has ignored. i know this as ive had his password but he didn't know so wouldn't have had a chance to delete stuff.
then the other day i was snooping and found that he had sent her a message just saying hello. thay had talked about him being under the thumb but wasn't anymore, he said we aren't together anymore and havn't been for months (not true) and how he was the best boyfreind she ever had.
i am so devasted, i just can't believe after all this time and 2 kids he's dragging her back into our lives. then this morning i went to go on his FB and he had changed the password. what do i do now??
he refuses to move out under any circumstances. i just wish she would piss right off.