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Satan's Son!

40 replies

seaofyou · 23/07/2012 22:01

The evil bastard!

Last year on ds's df blog he wrote insulting stuff about me on ds birthday. I was so upset. I used to check it a lot as had a lot if titles with evil twists directed towards me...well ex cant email/text/phone me anymore so I guess this is ex sick way! So I don't check often but the sicko is as predictable as the speaking clock so I know when to check every so many months on certain dates.

This ds birthday ex has produced a tune with heading about Satan's Seventh son and smashing walls down.

I guess because the shit can't smash my front door in no more since CCTV he is doing it this way!

Gas lighting at highest form?

Or has this evil creature just got worse?

I can't complain to police etc as I will be seen as the 'crazy' one and laugh me out of the station.

SOS as I know what I want to smash this minute and it ain't no wall!

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Sunnywithachanceofshowers · 23/07/2012 22:05

Hello sea

I remember your previous posts, and your X sounds like (massive understatement) an absolute shit.

I would just advise ignore, ignore, ignore. He's getting his jollies trying to get a reaction from you, and I suspect he'd be delighted if he thought he was upsetting you.

seaofyou · 23/07/2012 22:19

Sunny glad oldie MN on here as to tired/angry to explain it all. I will try to ignore and try not to hurt ( but it is badly:()

Why couldnt ds have a normal df that would send him a card etc

Is the sicko thinking he is Satan and ds is one of his seven son's?
Ex only got one ds though?

Thanks BP for support and reminding me I am 'nurturing' ds so ds got 50% chance of not being a disturbed evil twunt like df! Thank god is on my side and there is no contact now!

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RandomMess · 23/07/2012 22:23

Your ex is a complete loon!!!!

Time to block the ex on the account?

Jillyhere · 23/07/2012 22:26

total nutter, he is.

seaofyou · 23/07/2012 22:31

Random no it's ex blog...was hoping I had more cyber insults off the twunt to give to solicitor...but ex got clever and deleted the insults after few weeks last yr but I already sent it to solicitor to see and record at time ha!

This is far worse as it is using ds now as the methods to cause hurt which is far worse esp on ds birthday....if it was on any other time I would not even connect it but done intentionally to cause max hurt/damage evil evil bastard

I feel ashamed and degraded for ever even wasting a second on this creature! I have nothing but hate for the pig on ds birthday:(

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RandomMess · 23/07/2012 22:32

Why are you checking?

Do you think he will actually harm you?

Bluepenny · 23/07/2012 22:36

Hey Sea,

You and me both, hun.

Remember he is the narcissistic psychopath - not you and definitely not your DS - he is what you nurture him to be and a lovely appreciative DS at that.

Take a step back and breathe, I know it's not easy. Get angry, beat up a pillow/cushion (borrow my DS's punchbag LOL), but always remember DS is safe with you and you are doing a grand job protecting yourself and DS from a life form that is sadly all too common in this world. Those of us who've been there/are there understand it, even if it doesn't make it better in this moment. Laugh at him, like I do at XP - the attention seeking twunt - your words LOL. Don't waste your energy on him, focus it on DS and stay strong.

Remember in a few short years, like my DS now, your DS will be making his own decisions about his DF and whilst my XP isn't on the psychopathic scale, the rest is a parallel and DS has grown in every possible and positive way without his narcissistic sociopathic DF - your DS is doing the same.

Hold on to all the good stuff you are doing and rightly so, thank goodness the XP isn't in your lives.

One question we should ask ourselves - is it better we know and be those steps ahead or still wondering why they are like they are and the turmoil that went with it?

Have a Wine and b-r-e-a-t-h-e!
xx

seaofyou · 23/07/2012 22:49

Thank you Blue for the Wine

Breathing and keeping focused on here...so easy to just write a cutting message on the blog..never have and never will feed the narc! But come close a few times....need a cushion!

Random good question...was away abroad for ds birthday...it's the only time I sleep soundly as feel safe totally...but had a bad dream that ex shot me whilst on hols, last time I dreamt ex slit my throat and I bled to death and next morning 2 witnesses together saw him waiting in car around the corner...and ex would post these awful titles around time ex would attack.
Then there is the maintenance he owes yrs and courts have served ex and judge making a decision since January Hmm maybe ex has had result?
Nah this is just to get at me because it is ds Bd.

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Bluepenny · 23/07/2012 23:03

Random - with these type of personality disorders, you have to stay steps ahead of them. Unfortunately you can't just move on/forget/try and be cordial/work with them, you have to predict and protect. So watching what they post is actually pretty critical.

There is just not enough commonly known information to even spot one (nor any treatment sadly) - the experts advice is to run away, run as fast as you can. With a child by one, it's just not that simple and even with no contact, they still find ways (the internet/social media is a dream made in heaven for them) to seek attention, spread their bile in a way that those outside of the connection would have no idea and think people like Sea and I are mad and that they are wonderful (and usually incredibly charming).

A real shame this country doesn't have enough experts in this field, as the population of them is growing and they outfox the psychiatrists. They enjoy doing what they do. Weird is an understatement. Mentally ill they are not. They are clever and they are not obvious. They enjoy damaging other people for as long as they live and it is relentless.

Sorry Sea, hijacked a bit but context to these people is important to understand why it gets like it does.

xx

seaofyou · 23/07/2012 23:05

Random sorry there was 14 attacks on my home including fake petrol bomb and screwdriver dets with front door being forced on 3 occassions! I have CCTV and no letterbox now!

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seaofyou · 23/07/2012 23:12

Blue it feels like I am playing chess as a beginner against an expert though it's very very tiring ESP when knowing it's starting all over again. I got used to the quiet few months I just had!

I rely on my gut instinct and that dream warned me! I hope the cryptic evil title is the worst it gets:(
I feel we are very vulnerable again and I will start being on guard and on edge!

I feel very frightened.

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BlueBirdsNest · 23/07/2012 23:26

feeling frightened is natural if you have a 'loon' but you need to look at everything logically

Is your home currently safe and secure? If so you can relax a small bit in the knowledge.

Please do not look as his blog though, it will never ever bring any good

My quess on the Satan's seventh son thing would be he's doing it for effect ....if you ignore it , it will have no value.

Please ignore it

ArtVandelay · 23/07/2012 23:34

Hi again Sea :) He's written satanic nonsense before hasn't he IIRC. I know its chilling and wierd but please stay calm. And Happy Birthday Little Sea.

seaofyou · 23/07/2012 23:46

BBN thank you I have all locks on all lights on and mobile ready for bed..not that I will sleep.

There is car parked outside house...never seen it before. But same make but different colour to last time ex stalked (weekend served with court papers).

Little or no sleep tonight!

Thank you Art for ds Bd wishes on weekend! I know it's nonsense but logic goes out of window when panic...might sit in front of CCTV for few hours. That will send me to sleep Grin

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OldLadyKnowsNothing · 23/07/2012 23:48

Hi sea, I keep thinking of you and hoping that you've been quiet becUse he has been. So sorry you're feeling so bad again. Our previous arrangement holds.

seaofyou · 24/07/2012 00:51

Thank you OLKN I was thinking of PMing you! I will phone them tomorrow...but they said they would let me know if it had been done.
I think this is just a lovely birthday message Hmm aimed at me? I am trying to stay calm...feel a bit better now.

I don't think I can call police for this...it isn't a crime after all!
I will update you OLKN as soon as I know...thank you for looking out for us.
I will stop googling the meaning as it isn't very nice!

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izzyizin · 24/07/2012 01:33

Now come on, honey. you've got to stop this.

Your ds is not the seventh son of a seventh son nor is he a son of Satan - and who's Satan if he's not Lucifer, Bringer of Light, Lord of the Air, the Morning Star?

Your ex is nothing more than a drink addled twat. And, given the work that we did last year, he's an impotent twat who has no more power to harm you and yours than a common and garden fly.

Go get some sleep, safe in the knowledge that he can't hurt you in any way, shape, or form unless you let him.

seaofyou · 24/07/2012 01:49

Izzy it is what google says Pluton is. Mind you saying that it is saying Mirror Mirror now which is what ex is a Narc!
I will however learn by heart what you just wrote about ex so I can Grin and feel safer.
I know ex is just trying to upset or scare me as ds Bday same day.
I will banish the midget from my brain and not give the head space. I hope I sleep! Your comments always help in the wee hours.

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izzyizin · 24/07/2012 02:01

So he's a grantoid? That figures. He's certainly dense Grin

seaofyou · 24/07/2012 02:23

Ha if ex could read this the yoke would be on his face now Grin
Thanks for making me Grin izzy needed that!

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izzyizin · 24/07/2012 02:36

O come on, honey. You've got more power in your little finger than he could ever muster by sticking his dick in an electric socket and turning the switch on Smile'

seaofyou · 24/07/2012 09:13

Oh I hope so Izzy! As it did give me a fright last night! When I googled the meaning of the title it said about the dark deep sea...wonder if ex knows my name on here?
Then about preparing death of a lover (ok I am an ex lover but my ex has never truely gone away even though moved abroad...like a bad penny) a bit freaked when I read that...and smashing walls down! Well ex likes smashing things when angry ESP my front door!
my gut instinct is screaming at me to watch out for our lives! It saved me the last time when I had a dream he murdered me!

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RandomMess · 24/07/2012 12:11

What a nightmare Sad

CakeBump · 24/07/2012 12:15

Why do you keep reading the blog?

TheHappyHissy · 24/07/2012 14:49

sea. You know what I will say.

Please love, you need to move home.

Only then will you feel safe.

This man is really sick, he has attacked your home, he has threatened you, you are entitled to be paranoid at times, but he has given you just cause. he probably IS still having your house watched, he IS that sad.

This is not running away, it's taking yourself away from this sad, dense creature that will do you no good whatsoever. IT's RISING ABOVE, OK?