Yesterday h informed me that there was hardly any fuel in the car and he had to fill up. He wanted to go at 8pm yesterday (could have gone before then, but didn't want to). I asked him to wait until our ds was asleep because I am very unwell at the moment, and I had a poorly baby constantly breastfeeding, and older autistic ds with me. So, he said he would wait till later. He fell asleep, and then it was too late. So he had to go this morning, he was doing school run. Well, he just rang me and told me he was late taking ds to school, it was my fault, and apparently he is 'very angry' with me.
I ignored him and asked him if he rang me just for that, and apparently this is the sole reason he phoned me.
I am trying to work out at the moment if I am in an abusive relationship. I have read quite a lot of threads on here and can see some similarities, but not seen this sort of stuff before.
He has never done this before, and I have started to confront him lately about some of his behaviour towards me.
Is it normal to phone your partner/spouse and tell them "I am angry with you". I felt like a child being told off..