Never had an orgasm

[wheniwishuponastar]

Anyone else?

I never have either, glad I'm not the only one

I mean don't get me wrong there are more important things like love, and being a decent person etc etc but for the want of a bit of a proper school sex education lesson for girls....

ekidna - i have been to a sex therapist for quite a few sessions but it didn't help.

ekidna is correct.

:-( sorry wishuponastar---when I was writing it I thought it was a bit simplistic.

I'm not bothered. I like sex, just don't orgasm. I don't have it in me.

Show I think I am the same. I'll just make peace with it.

Test

Not wishing to borrow from another thread but have you tried it with a full bladder?

Only thing that works for me

You do realise that sex when you are asleep (unconscious and therefore unable to consent) is rape don't you?

Doesn't surprise me you're not having orgasms. That's the least of your problems.

It's not rape if there's a general agreement that she enjoys it in the context of a loving relationship. If you're long standing partners and both of you enjoy the closeness of going to sleep in eachother's arms then one of you initiates sex whilst the other is more or less asleep I can't see a problem. If she had ever objected to this and he carried on anyway then of course it would be rape, but she enjoys it and has told him so.

Sorry I should of just said half asleep. It's always me who instigates it in this scenario.
Yes tried porn. Prefer erotica.

A friend recommended it to me. I'm in the UK. Bought mine from a shop in my town.

I like it because it is so small that it can be really specific about where it touches. I move it all over the clit area and press it where it feels good. The first time it took about 15-20 mins to orgasm and I was really shocked when it happened cos some times there isn't alot of build up, it just suddenly is happening.

My mate sent me a video txt of her friend wanking yesterday and watching his lovely cock while using it really helped too!

I have a G- spot vivrator too and last night tried pressing on my g-spot (which is on the other side of your clit internally) while using the micro bullet. This was amazing!!

Good luck!

Thanks bum bums!