THE RIGHTS AND WRONGS OF THIS PART 2

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To the 180 odd great people who replied:here is the reply. The confusion centred round the church I think. This was not a party I simply invited a colleague for a meal It was turned into something else by the colleague who asked if she could bring another who was a longstanding friend of hers. Both have lived here much longer than me. I was suspicious. I managed to get the truth out of the univited who claimed I had been told all about her and upon hearing this I had invited her: lies I was only given her name and about a day's notice . I had nothing in common with the uninvited. I tested it out: she never did much in her free time and later admiited "i take everything I get" I tested further: she went from hotel worker to Mortgage advisor and tried to sell me a mortgoge Once she even asked me to bring my friends round to her house so she could meet them!! The Church comes in as I was supposed to be doing work for this girl even though neither she nor I were relligious !! I was actually very busy: I was working ftime as a teacher and had various interests but the uninvited girl did not share these . She was after meeting me I was not after meeting her. I do not like rude people especially not in my home : I tested more and found out she after even more Attempted theft I would say: the univited girl is not badly off as being a dull girl she works all the time .

that thread was priceless!
er..still all qute strange. Why didn't you just say to her you wren't interested in seeing her again, as she has agenda?
What was the comment 'why bother with an atheist' about then? if both of you weren't religious?

At the start I did not think like that . I like cooking so I cooked. I assumed we might have something in common as the other girl would not have invited her (?)!!?? There would have been an arrangement between them which I was not privy to and this was not disclosed at the time plus the uninvited had been told I had heard all about her so she thought she was invited (?) I think you will find the so-called religious one knew I was polite and it was exactly why this happened: after all she knew I was educated She would not have brought her friend here otherwise would she? She would not have told me the truth either would she cos if she had I would have declined. ?? No one actually likes to believe this kind of thing do they? Plus if the uninvited was looking for friends there is nothing wrong with that is there? Tricky Best to meet up outside first and see before inviting home>

I am not religious so I cannot say for certain.I would have thought the religious colleague would have had little time for an atheist like me as the Church is so important to her ??? I cannot presume but when I asked her why the girl had been brought here her reply was"The Church" Only these 2 words Not " I thought you might like to meet her as she is e.g a teacher, has the same interests or whatever? " She repeated this "The Church" This is why I think I was being asked to do some kind of work but I may be wrong.

And you need a new thread about this WHY?

You're still not making any sense.

are there any Church people on here who can interpret this for us? Cheers This is where it is not making sense

Really... does it matter? You're not planning on starting a friendship with these people. Who cares what it meant? Let it go.

WTAF are you on about and you're a teacher?!?

What in the name of sweet baby jesus ??

You're a teacher? With that grammar?

No but she was planning one with me!! Yes that is why she came: to get better. She wanted a "nice" friend -but she was not nice herself gOT IT? i DID LIKE the religious one but she spolied it by taking advantage

Ok, I'm a Christian and I think I understand the gist of this thread. I don't condone the behaviour of the one who was invited, but maybe her church had been encouraging their congregation to "be a contageous Christian" ( I have been on a course called that)and she thought she could convert both of you to Christianity in one fell swoop?

You mean?..... dun, dun, DUNNNNN.... the OP did the equivalent of inviting a Jehovah's Witness in for tea and buns??!?!!!! Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition....

ok let me see if i can get this straight...

you are upset about some woman trying to convert you to xianity?

or you want to know if she was, in fact, trying to convert you? and if so, is that wrong or right?

if it's either of those, i think you need to stop caring about things that really are of no consequence. so, you allowed some woman you didn't know to come to your home for a meal... she tried to convert you/acted strangely... then she went home...

so..? what are you upset about? it's not like she's still at your house, throwing holy water on you!

as far as i can see, the wrong was, you let someone you didn't know come to your house for a meal. you're apparently the kind of person who gets a massive bee in her bonnet when others behave strangely, so that wasn't a particularly intelligent thing to do. so don't do it again.

as for the guest, perhaps she was "wrong", perhaps you got the wrong end of the stick entirely. who knows. and who cares??

Heh heh my very Catholic friend's mother used to invite Jehovah's Witnesses in and then spend an hour trying to convert them to Catholicism - they would end up desperate to leave

Is Gabby back? The ranDOM capitalS and air of utter nonsense seem oddly familiar....

Oh my gosh it's started again......

who cares??

^^that, indeed, is the pertinent point...

I am delighted and highly chuffed that there's a second thread on this.

Hang on, where does attempted theft come in?

If there is any sense hidden very far in this, can someone explain it? In actual words that make sense? And paragraphs?

It's been a long day, I didn't get the first one and part 2 is beyond me still

Clearly I am stupid.

leguminous, that was after the friend's pet lizard called and said it wanted its bible back, only the first friend's sister doesn't like lizards and never had the bible anyway and everyone knows that if you try and give someone a biscuit and they're allergic its attempted MurDER....

What bloody attempted theft?
I'm sure that wasn't in the first one.

Ok I am going to try and read it again.

The rights and wrongs of this ?
I love it !
Pure insanity,
Give me more, every bit cracks me up !!!!

I've read it again....

I can't read anymore

Please please explain why bringing a person to dinner and talking about church has suddenly become attempted theft?

And why a religious person is not allowed to come to dinner?

And why the op thinks they were trying to get her to do "work"
What bloody work, gods work, house work, I don't know

Please help

you're not a teacher