I ended the relationship in February after finding texts from other women on his phone and emails, basically the trust had gone from an incident last year so this was the final straw and enough was enough...
We are still living together as neither of us can go, house is on the market and generally things have settled after a rough initial period.
He has not taken the split very well at all, has always been a control freak and hates that I ended it.
I logged onto plenty of fish two days ago, and registered, I'm not after anything serious but suppose I just wanted to see what was out there.
I have had one conversation with a man on there, my iPad was in the kitchen and the screen was locked and covered, it beeped indicating I had a new message and an alert popped up. I was out of the room, well it transpires the ex looked at my iPad and saw the message.
He has not taken it well. Called me all sorts is derogatory names.
He has come home from work in a right state now, saying its all my fault, and I'm doing it all to hurt him. He then basically alluded to the idea that he had thoughts to harm himself this morning.
He told me only I can stop this by not hurting him anymore, by that he means to stop talking/texting any men.
He then went out, and is due back at ten tonight and wants to talk more about it.
I try to stick up for myself but he just wears me down.