Advice needed

[SHARAN1]

I need help and can't find a way out,can anyone advice me.I'am married but consider myself 2 be a single parent,I have one daughter from a previous marriage.Idon't no were 2 start,the thing is I have been married almost 4 years .My situation is so bad,that I don't no what 2 do.I have no money and have not had anything 2 eat for the last 2 wks..My husband has never given me any money since we have been married.I have been living off 80 pounds child benefit and 200 pounds child maintence.That's all my daughter and I live off a month. after paying for school dinners,travel cost for the both of us and phone bill theirs not much left..My daughter and I are suffering,we are not allowed 2 sit down stairs and watch tv or allowed in any rooms...my daughter and I stay in our bedroom all day.Nobody talks 2 us.I can't use the washing machine ,so I have 2 hand wash my clothes and hange them in the shower as I'm not allowed in the garden..my mother in law tells me she prayers to god that my daughter and I die.I asked my husband if we can cliam tax credits as it would help me out,I told him that we were only entitled to 40 pounds and that it would help me pay for my daughters school dinners but he does not sign as his parents have told him not to.I can't claim anything as I'm married 2 him.I need glasses but can't afford the,I can't afford medicine I need,can't afford 2 go 2 the dentice,so I suffer.U must be thinking,just leave but its not that easy.My daughters 8 and I feel for her,she adds up things in myshopping basket,if she thinks it cost 2 much,she start putting some off the food back.pleasehelp,advice needed can I get financial assistance

I'm ill.don't feel 2 good,my heard hurts and I feel sick.My hair is falling out.He is of for a few days .We spoke about things yesterday,he told me things are going 2 change but I no they won't.I don't feel well at all,feel as if my head is going 2 explode

Sharan1, you don't have to wait. Gathering documents and all that stuff is NOT IMPORTANT in the big picture. If you feel like that it is time to go. Can you just walk out? Can you ring the Police?

Things will not change, you know that as well as we do.

You really do need to leave ASAP, forget the documents, you can obtain replacements later. The main thing is to get yourself and your daughter out of this living hell!

The stress is making you ill. You are right, nothing will change while you stay, but you can change your life and your daughters' by leaving. If you do nothing else tonight, re-read this thread and choose which organisation you would like to contact first. You can do this.