Question regarding sex- embarrasing but im curious!

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You know when your on top during sex, riding, enjoying yourself etc.. when do you stop? I mean if your partners not a moaner or heavy breather( like mine) when do you know he's 'cum'? I can't feel it happen inside me so I carry on

Keep you eyes open, men seem to have an "orgasm face".

Don't laugh though, they don't seem to find that a turn on.

I stop when I orgasm - is that selfish? Have usually had enough by then.

Obviously single for a reason :)

Mine doesn't! No moan, no heavy breathing, no face! You would never know! I know for a fact cause when I 'wank' him there's no expression at all!

Well then there's no harm in carrying on until you're ready to finish and he's still able.

how do you not feel the hot creamy love honey pumping into you though?

Mine makes a face like a startled sheep, I know to look out for it.

Hmm does it not hurt a little bit once hes finished then? I mean if a woman's orgasmed through clitoral stimulation once its done its very sensitive after! Is it not the same for a man?

mightynice I only feel it once it trickles out

This probably is not a helpful comment at all, but I am really not sure I could have a sex life with someone who was expressionless, silent and whose body was that passive that I has no idea when they had an orgasm

Have you spoken to him about it ever? I mean, how do you get feedback? Generally they are different physically as orgasm approaches and there are usually lots of signs, not just being able to feel ejaculate. Why is he so inhibited? Did he learn it growing up to be like that?

he honestly doesnt change expression or make a noise when he comes????

PMSL @ startled sheep!!!

I can't look at DH else I'd collapse in a fit of giggles, just hearing it is bad enough...

but, sorry to go on, surely you feel something?

like it sort of gradually shrivelling away inside you as the minutes/days after orgasm pass?

Once you get bored/daylight starts peeking in from below the curtain,enquire whether he has 'arrived'...

I know ElusiveCamel and I wish hed show me the enjoyment but I get nothing. It would be nice to know he's enjoying oral but the only way I know its happening is when it pulsates:( tmi sorry! He grew up wanking over porn on the computer at night when he lived with his parents. He had to be quick as possible and very quiet so no body woke up. So I think he's stuck in that habit

Mine doesn't make any noise either - hardly encouraging. I can only tell because he gets goosepimples and grabs me hahaha

I would have this out with him but if he started makin noise now id know he was doing it on purpose. I feel sad now :(

Wanking The Expressionless Man

sounds a tad unnerving

but would make a fabulous username

could he wave a flag?

Haha that would be a great username!

Oh sorry OP

Being flippant when you are making sad faces!

Hmm, try leading by example? Bit more chat, communication, hmm that's nice, do you like that etc. try and get a bit more eye contact and try and get him to lose the robot act? He probably half doesn't realise he's doing it.

lifechanger I hope its a slightly different startled sheep face to the one that fussbucket knows

I have asked him why he's silent and if hes embarrassed to make noise. He just said some men do and some men dont. We have been together for 5 years so its not like he's not comfortable to do it.