Im 8.5 months pregnant. Dh and I have a hell of a year with his mother being very ill and me not supporting. We ate now in one hell of a mess and I'm not sure ou relationship will survive. Basically he wants out. Loves me, cares for me, doesn't want the marriage. Too much anger and fighting. I understand, at times nor do I. But when we are both about to leave, we can't. He says that he knows he is making the biggest mistake of his life and still really wants it to wil and believes his feelings will come back if we keep talking. It is getting better. Very slowly.
The thing is as soon as he told me he was struggling with our marriage I accused him of an affair. I am embarrassed to say I did do some mental hormonal behaviour. Dh has always maintained no one else is involved. I have all the passwords to everything. He shows me his phone whenever I ask. But deleates all his messages regularly anyway. The more I check up on him, the more
Angry he is getting as he swears he's not up to anything. I just can't shake the feeling. He had a fling years as years ago. A one night stand. He told me hen he could easily get away with it. Tells me that if someone else was involved it would be easy to walk away as he could fill his time with someone else. When he's tellin me a Beleive him. As soon as I'm
On my own. I have doubts again. I know these boards are very quick to shout othe woman. But calmly, honestly, how did you know. Am I being a pregnant hormonal crazy lady.
There is so much stress in his life at the moment. Can stress/ depression do this to tou?!?