Basically, as the title says...I am just beginning to realise what a complete control freak my husband is. I've always pretty much just tagged along in our relationship, I was happy to be led, I've got quite a shady past and this is the first time I've ever lets say, lived within the law. Now we've had a baby and it's almost like if I even have an opinion on something then I'm either trying to control the whole baby raising thing or I'm causing an argument. I can argue, but I'm not confrontational, it's usually a build up of things for me, I usually just let shit slide til I explode. Recently though he's been so childish about everything doing things to provoke me; for instance, baby been ill for about 2 weeks and hardly eaten, eventually perks up, husband then says he feels rough but offers to sleep in the spare room - which I thought was quite noble - but then on his way up to bed he said no, he will sleep in the family room and that we cannot wrap the baby in cotton wool forever, we argued because I felt he wasn't considering baby's health and just to prove a point he went upstairs and took the baby out of his cot and put him to sleep with him in the bed. He's never done this, I do this, he never does this. Then when I wanted to take him out on Saturday believing fresh air to be good for him, because my husband decided that he wasn't at his best that I shouldn't go out, and therefore I didn't go out, I actually feel sick typing this all out to be honest because that's how helpless I felt that day.)