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Not speaking to me *again*

53 replies

Geordieminx · 18/02/2012 10:15

Went out last night for friends birthday. Had intended getting last train home @ 12, but kinda didn't.

Text Dh at 12,30 to say we had missed train but not to worry. No response.

Got home (after a fab night Blush) about 3.30

He's not speaking to me. At all.

I have apologised but inside I'm screaming "so fucking what I went out"

I feel about 15.

Sorry tis a bit of a meh post. Hungover and feeling sorry for myself.

OP posts:
solidgoldbrass · 19/02/2012 01:55

Why do people put up with this? I'd be inclined either to treat the sulker like a naughty toddler ie ignore the sulk for a while and if it didn't stop, tease the person - 'Ooh, have we still got our grumpy pants on? Never mind...'.

And after a while I would probably bin the person.

carernotasaint · 19/02/2012 02:30

bonzo 77 when Geordies DH starts actually behaving like a husband in the full marital sense instead of like a fucking substitute father/jailer then they might be able to be able to talk about things. This behaviour is another example of his emotional abuse. He does NOT own you Geordie. He shouldnt have broken his marriage vows, and im talking about the vow that says "with my body i thee worship" he gave up his rights to be indignant about you being out with your mates,when he refused to address that marital issue. Coupled with him refusing to do anything about his sexual problem this is CONTROL.

WMDinthekitchen · 19/02/2012 02:56

Perhaps it is because you dared to go out and enjoy yourself while he was expected to stay at home with the DC. Or does he not like you going out at all, where he can't keep tabs on you (unless of course you are being paid to work, or doing the shopping which are both things that will benefit him)? How childish he is

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