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My relationship is crap isn't it????

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needsomelovin · 08/02/2012 19:10

Right I'm just going to let it all out...I need to vent. I've only been with him 5 months and I feel like this already!!!! He has good points of course he does, but I'm not going mention those, just the bad things!

A few months into our relationship I discovered he was flirting with other women on facebook, he went over the line by asking one woman for a dirty picture and giving her his number. I was devestated finished it but he talked me into going back, said it would never happen again and he just wanted to make me happy. Since then we have had numerous arguments, over nothing really, he really shouts at me, is aggressive and just can't talk calmly, he is always snappy, and very rarely says anything nice. He looks at other women (what man doesn't) but makes me feel everyone else is better than me. He complains I don't answer the phone to him sounding pleased to hear from him, I don't tell him I love him even though I do every day nearly. We have been out twice on our own since we met and that was the 1st few dates since then we just stay in and watch tv, he gets snappy and I feel like an old married couple. Yet as soon as a bloke friend phones to go for a beer he's well up for it, doesn't make me feel good really.

Our sex life has always been good, but he's even started to be snappy during sex that I'm not doing something right, or not naughty enough etc, but thats because he has made me feel uncomfortable around him now. I'm loosing confidence. I've cooled off a bit and as soon as he realises something is wrong, he declares his undying love for me, wants to make it work etc. But I've had enough, its time to end it isn't it???!!!!

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nalubeadsgirl · 09/02/2012 17:52

Send ONE reply - I'm keeping your texts and I'll be contacting the police if you continue.

And make sure you do.

What a complete tool. Lucky escape there girl!

topknob...never ever too late...life's for living! You should be with someone who makes it fun.

changeforthebetter · 10/02/2012 16:25

Well done you for getting rid. You are absolutely not thick. You saw through this weasel and you did the right thing.

ITA about keeping texts and telling the police if he persists. He sounds like a really nasty piece of work.

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