He doesn't fancy me anymore

[Abirosie]

I have just had a major shock over the last few days. My H has admitted he doesn't fancy me anymore. He says he loves me but no longer fancies me. I am only 27 and have put on a little bit of weight since we have been marrie but i am still only a 12-14. I am not an ugly person to look at just normal i guess.

It has torn me apart and now feel i can't carry on our marriage. We have been married 8 years and have an 18 month old baby, i know the spark usually goes after a while but i am still young and want to be desired. Am i being silly

My dh loves me physically even more now I've had his children. I know it sounds like a line, but you can just tell if it's sincere. he calls my stretch marks "raspberry ripple"(TMI, sorry!!). You are worthy of being loved and cherished as much as anyone else. If he can't do it he doesn't deserve you. Particularly if he can't be honest about what his problem is instead of making hurtful and unhelpful commments about you.

I haven't read any of your other threads so don't know much about you, but my advice would be to find some outside interests if possible. Anything, a course, join the gym etc. This isn't to make him jealous but to help you see things in perspective, to see past the problem. It might even make hom sit up and appreciate you more. And if you eventually decide to leave him you will have a life rather than entering a void.

10 stone eight? i haven't been ten stone eight since i was ten!! he sounds like a bit of a prick to be honest. i think a comment like' i have wanted to share my life with a wanker i would have married one' would be in order. is he losing his hair at all? any sign of a paunch? is he as picture perfect as wants you to be?

Hi All
I am 10 stone 2 today. Due to diet an all. Feeling really devious though. Cried then got angry now getting even. My weight is slowly dropping and i hope i get to about 9 stone, then i shall have my pick haa haa haa!!

I have finally cracked

ab3irosie can i ask how long you have been together/married?

Don't go too far Abi - your health is MUCH more important than he is.

Curious to see what happened here! Same thing happening to me ..

It was 16 years ago dont hold your breath for an update 😂