Just found our my Husbands been cheating. Wtf do I do now?

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I started a thread last night about finding suspect pics on our laptop.

Checked DH phone this morn and there's messages arranging to meet up. 'morning babes' 'I like your jobs' 'the wife won't be coming' 'xxx' etc etc

Gone through his phone book and there's some girls names I don't know.

Rang the girl who had been texting and said the knows 'nowt' 'I haven't done anything'. Then she's text me saying they havent done anything but send a couple if pics. My husband is not happy. Not her problem.

Confronted husband. Admits texts obviously. Denies doing anything-like sex etc. very sorry. Tears from him. Only me he wants. He was stupid-the usual baloney you'd hear on a holly oaks storyline.

I will never believe a word he says ever again. We have been together 13 years, married 12. I'm 30 years old. We have a five year old son and a seven month old son. I'm not a complete minger. Thought we had a happy life together. I would have trusted him with my life.

What do I do now?

Meeting a friend as I'm going to explode and we've got the baby at home. So I've come out. But my whole world has collapsed

I don't think you will get the truth from her plus she is pretty irrelevant to the whole situation tbh, it's him who is the problem. She is just an opportunity which presented itself and she could be anybody so don't you dare start comparing yourself to her etc.

Keep your dignity, don't put yourself through meeting her and being vulnerable in front of her and proceed as if the worst case scenario is the truth because I'll bet there is more to come out, some of which you will never find out if he carries on being secretive and uncooperative.

I really hope you are ok.

Just to offer some support I would confront her too! I mean she knew he was married when she got into whatever it us so in my book she is culpable too! Best of luck

Meeting the other woman in an hour!

Starting to feel really angry but I'm going to try and be calm with her.

Wonder if she'll turn up?

Good luck - remember you have nothing to be ashamed of, stay cool stay calm, and quite rightly take the moral high ground.

Unless he changes jobs how will you ever trust him?

Imagine the conversation every night...

How many houses did you visit today?
How many we're women?
What did you talk to them about?
Did any of them flirt with you?

Etc.....

The not knowing will eat away at you.

Personally I would just leave him.

I know someone who does this kind of job. Not a utility, but a handy man type thing. I really, really hate to say it. But it's such a porno cliche.

He met his ltp by doing a job for her. He was single, so was she....

But the stuff he used to come out with, it's true as well, as he's not the bragging type. He was quite disgusted. He really is the faithful type, even when he's talking to friends, no bragging, etc.

The amount of "temptation" these house callers get. They are in so many houses a day. You have single women, who are just a bit lonely, sadly looking for a man to be there for some DIY. Married bored housewives. Don't get me wrong the majority aren't. But there is a significant level of proposition. Women opening the door in various states of undress etc.

I don't think I could trust him again in your position, like male said.

Good luck
Stay calm
Have pen and paper ready once left her write everything down.

Thinking of you OP. Hope you get through the snow ok.

How did the meeting go OP? Hope you got some answers.