Aworks website, anyone know what this is?

[npg1]

Hi everyone.

Well I read up a few things and it looks like its not good.

Me and OH have been together a year. He moved in in about july time. He had a credit card which has reached the limit and I told him to cut the card up as he struggles with payments. I have never seen a statement as he says they go to his parents house where he previously lived. I know this card worries him and I said I would be happy to use my savings money to pay the card off, £2000 in the course of about 5 months!

Anyway, today I am using his car, went into the boot and there is a bag with rubbish in etc and on top was a credit card statement so I decided to have a look. There are about 3 payments of £30- £50 each time to aworks. Now am I over reacting? How do I bring this up with him when he gets home tonight, 'oh by the way I saw a statement in the car'? am I a mugg for paying this all off?

We are getting married in september. Please help

[LosingTheWillToSkate]

This is an old thread!

But I've used adultwork and the payments will probably be topping up his account for Webcams or similar. It won't be for physical face to face stuff.

[user1465333936]

Thanks ouriana I Have posted a new thread I'm sat here now and he hasn't even said sorry why or anything other than I don't want to lose you he said to me I love you and won't do it again but nothing else I told him he was a rat and how could he do this to me he doesn't even explain and now he thinks he's off the hook and I will just forget .so you and others understand I have little self esteem left he wants things in the bedroom that I give him but mainly always oral I won't go in to anything else but it's always to gratify him I'm left feeling even worse .he says he's to tired all the time so I do all the work in that department I do it so he wouldn't stray .I pay all the bills he was on his knees when I met him now he's not he has a new car savings ect his earnings are all his he does however pay for low cost holidays and I can't help feeling that he is here for financial reasons and not me. He has done things to me that any one else would have ran away from him like drop me off in taxis saying he was going bk to his flat before he moved in with me then twice I caught him going bk to the place had been I believe he went bk there to meet some woman .he denied that the list is endless he has started to groom his self more spending money on new clothes wanting to lose his bit of tummy weight all the signs are telling me he's a b..tard I'm so hurt I haven't a clue what I should do I know I should walk away but he makes me feel guilty and sorry for him and I genuinely do love him I do everything for him I would never hurt him I feel like running and not stopping