Gosh so mortified don't know where to begin. Had a thread up recently about probs dh and I were having. We were finally getting back on track and getting on much better...
Last night we were dtd, it was really good, I initiated it but dh had Sid earlier in the evening that he was really in the mood. So it was going really well, 
h lost his erection a bit so we finished by pleasuring each other orally . It wasnt completely obvious at the time that he had lost his erection because he regained it quite quickly...anyway I didn't want to mention it at the time but as it has happened recently I decided to broach the subject today in an non accusatory way, I just asked him if he had lost it and was it something I had done....he said ( not meanly) that I was quite wet and it didn't help...then he said that maybe I should keep up the kegal exercises...I was really embarrassed, but maybe he was right to say it. I said that I thought he was being hurtful and he said well you have given birth to 2 children.. I was hurt and felt angry and I said maybe he should find himself a virgin.. He said there wd no reason to be nasty.. I said I was hurt by the comment and then we had visitors and haven't mentioned it again. He is entitled to say that I suppose, maybe things have changed for him down there since our youngest child was born..I just don't think I'll feel comfortable for a long time to have sex with him I'll be so paranoid. I am wrong to feel so hurt. It wasn't him who initiated the conversation it was me....I just don't know what to think :(