On xmas day my brother mentioned that they were re-opening the function room in the pub he works in and so there was going to be a NYE party.
I said I would love to go, and db said he could probably get me in free. Cue lots of maoning and 'your not going' from dp.
I just left it in the end, couldn't be bothered.
Then yesterday a friend text me saying she would have loved for us to go out but she couldn't get a babysitter, so I text her back saying to let me know if she got one and we'd definatly go out.
I told dp and he didn't really say much, and I was thrilled at that.
Anyway it seems that he didn't quite understand what i'd said cos now today he has blown his top because I want to buy shoes incase I go out. It's not the shoes he is annoyed about but the fact that I have made plans without consulating him and the fact that he doesn't want me to go.
There is now a right atmoshpere in the air and tbh i feel really devestated that he can be so mean. I never ever go out, mainly because this always happens. I turn down invites all the time because I know he won't like it, but how can he, knowing how much I really wanna go, stand there and argue about it, like I am doing something awful.
The last time I went out was over a year ago.
Looks like we won't be going anyway as my friend still can't get a sitter, but that isn't the point, he has just totally stamped on what I want again.