Is it me or is this really childish/selfish of him?

[MadamXx]

Posted about this a few days ago but we've moved on slightly. Boyfriend usually comes around once a fortnight and stays saturday until Sunday. However the next time he's due to come down he's told me he's working late until 10pm but will come down after that. Bearing in mind he usually wants to go to bed by 11pm this seems like a complete waste of time. Anyway a friend has asked if I want to go to cinema with her that saturday night and then out for drinks afterwards. I have agreed. I contacted DP to say I'd now made arrangements for that night and we would just have to meet up another day. He sent a "sad" face and nothing more so I sent a reply saying "we could still meet up sunday day time instead?" and he has just ignored me completely. This kind of confirms that its the saturday NIGHT he wants me for isn't it. The shag basically. Thats why Sunday day time doesn't appeal to him because he knows I'll want to go out and actually do something.
He's rejected two occasions this week where he could have seen me (I've been blown off for housework and car repairs) yet he acts like he's been neglected because I don't want to hang around in the house on saturday night until gone 10pm.

trying

Yeah, mm, oh well just get rid then OP if it will be too much bloody heart ache. Clean slate and all that.

I don't get why you are putting up with this. There is nothing at all wrong with seeing someone for sex rather than trying to make This Relationship Progress if all parties concerned are happy with it, but not only do you seem to want more than this man is offering (he really does just want to make sure you're there as his on-tap shag but he's not interested in you, just your orifices) but he really doesn't sound very nice at all - putting you down and trying to control your behaviour.
Are you desperate for A Partner? Have you been convinced that any kind of male attention is better than Being Single?