In a nutshell (will expand later) I have met a nice guy, been seeing each other 3 weeks (5 times in total, including staying overnight)..however he seems to have no desire to ravish me or even look at my body and dropped a bombshell (well, I managed to extract the info out of him) that he has an STI which he is receiving treatment for (takes 3 months) and will not be able to have intercourse (even with condoms) for at least this amount of time and perhaps a couple of months after. At the time I said that's ok with me but what has bothered me even more is the fact that he doesn't even want to touch me or look at me sexually. I asked him why and he said he is shy (ffs he's 50). I'm thinking maybe it's because he doesn't want to get turned on because he knows he can't have sex, but I'm thinking it's a bit unreasonable to ask a new date to wait 5/6 months for any intimacy?? I probably sound like I'm a horny nymph lol, but tbh I'm a bit pissed off that he was on a dating site making himself available for a relationship (thats how we met) yet the only reason I know about his STI was because I dragged it out of him after he told me to keep my pants on in bed LMAO!! Am I being unfair??