URGENT.......DOES ANYONE KNOW CARLA IN RL..CAN THEY CALL HER

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THINK SHE IS IN TROUBLE

HERE

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Then what do you propose she does? You said that no one should stay with an abusive partner.

And at no point did I suggest that any of this was easy.

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I wasn't aware that I had been unsupportive. I've given simple and unjudgmental advice, nothing else.

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her husband would be entitled to a financial settlement and he may challenge custody

but divorce is always going to be hard

it's a case of weighing things up

Carla has other problems too, that might be relevant if she and her husband were to split.

I know she has tried very hard in the past to address some of the difficulties she has. I am not aware of how much progress Carla has made, if any in recent times.

Perhaps if Carla wants to she can discuss them here

Oh I meant to say - the only 'lawyer' on MN whoever advised people to just 'change the locks' and fling their not so DH's out on the street was the one and only - JF

and if she doesn't then maybe the thread can stop!