Ok short background.
DH walked out a couple of months ago. Usual 'I'm not in love with you anymore', 'we've changed' blah, blah, cliche but no solid reason. I've been doing everything that I can to keep us together as a couple and a family but have been met with total indifference the whole way along. Nevertheless I have persevered inspite of very difficult circumstances because I know of people who have made a success of their marriages when at one stage it looked impossible.
I've always had my suspicions about one of his colleagues - she has 'predator' stamped all over her. Now I've found a document that he left on our shared computer from her, joking about having sex in a car. I cannot explain how livid I am. The whole way through this he has always said there is no-one else. Bloody f'ing liar.
My options:
a) confront him in the heat of the moment
b) ask him directly when I have cooled down
c) say nothing and see if he leaves further evidence (not sure if I should tip him off that I can still see some of his electronic stuff)
d) revenge - share the document with his bosses and see what the fallout is - (maybe teachers can advise me what the consequences of two members of the senior management team having an affair is?)
d) forget about it and continue in my pragmatic do everything I can to make the marriage work, and hope he grows out of this mid-life crisis soon.
Thanks for reading. For very obvious reasons I can't share any of this with any of my real-life friends. x