Husband been watching porn!

[sazzler197]

Hi everyone

Just wondered if any of your husbands/boyfriends watch porn? I was shocked to switch my laptop on the other day and the battery had reached it's critical level and it came back onto what he had been watching, porn! Now don't get me wrong i know it is only porn but i was so upset and hurt when i saw what he had been watching, had feelings like i was not good enough for him and actually felt quite jealous!! I have not long had a baby so made be feel like crap really! Does anyone else had feelings like this or am i just being stupid!! He told me he only watches it once in a blue moon and said i am the only one for him, but why do men feel the need to watch it when they have a wife at home!!?? Is it just what men like to do??!! Since this has happend we have made more time for each other (as much as you can with 2 small children) but it did knock me a bit or maybe i was just so naive to think my husband would not watch it!!

Priest: do carry on showing us your rather creepy true colours, won't you? One of many reasons religion and religious organisations merit so much contempt is the problem so many of their representatives have with women, and particularly with women's autonymous sexuality. Lots of women like sex with lots of different partners and without needing marriage or commitment. That';s not immoral. I like having sex with sevearl partners at once, and doing men up the bum with strap ons. As this is to the mutual pleasure and with the willing participation of all concerned, I consider it a wholly moral activity.
Far more moral than peddling superstitious bullshit on behalf of a power-hungry, money-hungry, paedophile-protecting insitution that is riddled with misogyny and homophobia and causes a great deal of serious harm.

(for what it's worth, in the Christian faith, Jesus has enormous respect for women and treated them as fully equal to men)

Amber-- I agree with you, but I also agree with the others that Jesus' followers have a hard time following his example sometimes (which is why this is such a strained topic!)....but that is part of what we should be striving for. Because his treatment of women is balanced and beautiful.

WGC-Thank you for giving quotes from the bible instead of giving your opinion of what the bible says, -but that being said---, your attempt to show that the bible denigrates women is self defeating, it is important to know that:

1. Equality does not mean SAMENESS. Men and women are equal but not the same, they were created to fill different roles.

1. Value in money (slavery....is an institution of mankind) does not translate into the value that God puts on the individual.

1. Submission has NOTHING to do with equality but has everything to do with responsibility, protection, and order.

1. the man and the woman were BOTH cursed in Gen. the man was told that he must toil and work for his food...but strangely....there is a blessing tied up in the curses that were put upon men and women:

Men find fulfillment and great benefit in work, gives them a sense of purpose and value in society.

Women find fulfillment, emotional security and physical protection, in a monogamous and loving relationship, where the man takes the lead and keeps himself pure and fully devoted (eyes and fantasy included) to his wife.

PS:I don't want to fight with you guys I am just trying to help.

Hi ya, I'm new to this so I do apologise in advance.

Firstly my husband of 8year, I found him have a happy night on porn while I was out with our 5 children not the first time might I add. What I can't get is he knows I hate it but he is addictive to it. It's put a huge wedge in our marriage I won't have sex with him because 2 night ago I found him on a fuckbuddy website with is photo up on there,!! He says I'm being stupid that he loves me and he was only on there to look at other women he wouldn't have spoken to them. It's made me feel low and not good enough.
Is it just me being silly or what??
HELP!!! Please

@Priest
I was going to give you stick for this: guard and protect your husbands exclusive sexual attention , but it looks like PPs have it pretty well covered.

@Jade
You probably want to start your own thread, or read this one - the responses may be the same

6 year old ZOMBIE thread.

They're fantasy women.

You shouldn't feel jealous over these women, it's daft.

Jade2092

It'd be better to start your own thread; resurrecting this old one will mean that people will just keep responding to the original poster.